Bija ime, Rumejsa!
\nTi ishe g\u00ebzimi, vajza, mbesa m\u00eb e madhe n\u00eb familjen ton\u00eb dhe \u00e7do her\u00eb do t\u00eb mbetesh e till\u00eb.
\nU dallove p\u00ebr guximin, but\u00ebsin\u00eb, dhembshurin\u00eb dhe dashurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde. N\u00eb mesin e shoqeve u tregove gjithnj\u00eb bamir\u00ebse. Ti nuk ishe vet\u00ebm shoqe n\u00eb mesin e tyre, ku kalove n\u00ebnt\u00eb vite t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, por ishe motra e madhe, t\u00eb gjitha silleshin rreth teje dhe d\u00ebshironin t\u00eb ishin shoqe me ty.
\nTi nuk urren, por dashuron e m\u00ebshiron. Nuk m\u00eb lodhe n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e edukimit sepse ti ishe dhe je vet\u00eb edukata n\u00eb familje. Nga ajo dit\u00eb q\u00eb hodhe hapin drejt shkoll\u00ebs, ti solle ve\u00e7 suksese dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb pres edhe n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen.
\nE guximshme p\u00ebr t\u2019i marr\u00eb vendimet p\u00ebr veten, edhe pse ato vinin n\u00eb hapa t\u00eb ngadalsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr syrin tim, por t\u00eb sigurt.
\nBija ime!
\nE di q\u00eb sot kur ta lexosh k\u00ebt\u00eb let\u00ebr, syt\u00eb e tu t\u00eb bukur do t\u00eb nxjerrin lot m\u00ebrzie e g\u00ebzimi, por k\u00ebt\u00eb ndoshta sot nuk do ta kuptosh, por nj\u00eb dit\u00eb po. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, kur t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh n\u00ebn\u00eb, do ta kuptosh se edhe ne m\u00ebrzitemi p\u00ebr ty, edhe pse nga m\u00ebshira ndaj teje mundohemi t\u2019i fshehim lot\u00ebt vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ti ta kuptosh se ne jemi t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrkrah\u00ebsit e tu deri n\u00eb fund.
\nBija ime!
\nDeri sot ishe pran\u00eb nesh n\u00ebn v\u00ebzhgimin ton\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrkujdesjen ton\u00eb si prind\u00ebr. Dije se ne nuk jemi me ty, por mos harro se Zoti t\u00eb sheh e kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Kurr\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb nuk kam dashur t\u00eb t\u00eb edukoj q\u00eb t\u00eb frik\u00ebsohesh apo turp\u00ebrohesh nga ne, por p\u00ebr \u00e7do veprim t\u00ebndin turp\u00ebroju dhe ki frik\u00eb Zotin.
\nNga sot nuk do ta d\u00ebgjosh fjal\u00ebn \u2018a e ke falur namazin?\u2019, por duhet ta kuptosh se namazi, lidhja, komunikimi me Zotin t\u00ebnd p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn dhe ahiretin t\u00ebnd \u00ebsht\u00eb si oksigjeni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb. Mos e anashkalo namazin!
\nMami nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb af\u00ebr teje, por ti ke edukatore, kujdestare, q\u00eb tani i ke n\u00eb pozit\u00ebn e mamas\u00eb. Ashtu si\u00e7 e do maman\u00eb duhet t\u2019i duash, respektosh e nderosh sepse edhe ato dikush i ka n\u00ebn\u00eb. Suksesi yt i g\u00ebzon ato, sjellja jote i b\u00ebn q\u00eb edhe ato t\u00eb t\u00eb respektojn\u00eb e t\u00eb kujdesen edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr ty. Ashtu si\u00e7 sillesh me to, edhe ato do t\u00eb sillen me ty.
\nAty nuk i ke motrat e tua q\u00eb t\u00eb hidh\u00ebrohesh e pas nj\u00eb \u00e7asti t\u00eb pajtohesh, por t\u00eb gjitha shoqet e tua jan\u00eb motra, respektoji. N\u00ebse dikush ka xhelozi, sillet keq apo d\u00ebgjon t\u00eb flasin fjal\u00eb jo t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr ty, ti ktheje t\u00eb keqen me t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Mos b\u00ebj padrejt\u00ebsi, as mos lejo q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb ndaj teje. B\u00ebhu e drejt\u00eb me veten dhe me t\u00eb tjerat. Sjellja jote e mir\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb si aroma brenda sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, q\u00eb e largon er\u00ebn e keqe.
\nDije se n\u00eb rrug\u00eb nuk p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson vet\u00ebm veten, por ti je pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb familjeje, t\u00eb thon\u00eb \u2018vajza e filanit\u2019. Ruaje prestigjin e familjes! Ti mban mbules\u00ebn islame, respektoje dhe me sjelljen t\u00ebnde hijeshoja dikujt mbules\u00ebn sepse ti je ambasadore e vog\u00ebl e nj\u00eb feje shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe.
\nN\u00eb jet\u00eb ke sfida, fjal\u00ebn e fundit mos e thuaj t\u00eb par\u00ebn, njer\u00ebzit nuk mund t\u2019i b\u00ebsh si vetja, respektoje mendimin ndryshe, kuptoje se njer\u00ebzit nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00eb, nuk mund t\u00eb arrish t\u2019i k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsh t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, por me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb ta njoh\u00ebsh vetveten dhe t\u00eb vazhdosh drejt synimit t\u00ebnd.
\nBija ime!
\n\u00c7do \u00ebnd\u00ebrr apo problem q\u00eb ke, b\u00ebhu si Jusufi, q\u00eb ia tregoi babait t\u00eb tij fillimisht. Tash e ke kuptuar q\u00eb \u00ebndrrat, d\u00ebshirat, synimet, problemet me t\u00eb cilat q\u00eb ballafaqohesh n\u00eb jet\u00eb s\u00eb pari shpalosja njerz\u00ebve m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt n\u00eb jet\u00eb: ata jan\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e tu e jo dikush tjet\u00ebr.
\nAty ke profesor\u00eb, koleg\u00eb t\u00eb mi, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ndryshojn\u00eb nga ata q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsuan deri tash. N\u00ebse d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb dikush ta respektoj\u00eb baban\u00eb t\u00ebnd, respektoji ata, d\u00ebgjoji k\u00ebshillat e tyre dhe kurr\u00eb mos t\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb turp kur \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala p\u00ebr dijen. Pyeti ata!
\nM\u00ebso, lexo, studio sepse \u00e7do l\u00ebshimi sot do t\u2019ia shoh\u00ebsh pasojat nes\u00ebr n\u00eb jet\u00eb.
\nLe t\u00eb jen\u00eb ambiciet e tua t\u00eb m\u00ebdha sepse nes\u00ebr familja pret prej teje shum\u00eb dhe shoq\u00ebria ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr gra si ti.
\nBija ime!
\nSot, ti vendose t\u00eb jesh pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb karvani brenda vatr\u00ebs m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb dijes n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vend. Ajo vat\u00ebr ka si shtyll\u00eb dashurin\u00eb, n\u00ebnshtrimin dhe respektin p\u00ebr Zotin e pastaj atdhedashurin\u00eb. K\u00ebto dy vlera i ruajti dhe po i ruan ende. Ti u b\u00ebre pjes\u00eb e bankave t\u00eb burrave, grave, dijetar\u00ebve, hoxhallar\u00ebve, luft\u00ebtar\u00ebve, d\u00ebshmor\u00ebve q\u00eb ishin pjes\u00eb e saj.
\nSot ti u ule n\u00eb bankat e shkoll\u00ebs ku babi yt ishte ulur pra 21 vitesh, p\u00ebr ta ruajtur dhe kultivuar k\u00ebt\u00eb tradit\u00eb q\u00eb dal\u00ebngadal\u00eb po b\u00ebhet pjes\u00eb e familjes son\u00eb. Bereqeti i k\u00ebsaj shkolle na p\u00ebrcjell edhe sot.
\nUrime viti i ri shkollor n\u00eb bankat e Medreses\u00eb Alaudin, paralelja e femrave.
\nT\u00eb prift\u00eb e mbara, qofsh n\u00ebn p\u00ebrkujdesjen e Atij q\u00eb t\u00eb ka krijuar dhe t\u00eb ka udh\u00ebzuar deri tash.
\nBabi, mami, familja presin q\u00eb ti \u00e7do dit\u00eb t\u00eb na surprizosh me suksese!
\nT\u00eb dua, babi.
\n04\/09\/2017, Gjilan<\/p>\n
*Letra q\u00eb Rashit Zylfiu i shkroi vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb vet, Rumejsa R. Zylfiu, si k\u00ebshill\u00eb udh\u00ebrr\u00ebfyese p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e saj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bija ime, Rumejsa! Ti ishe g\u00ebzimi, vajza, mbesa m\u00eb e madhe n\u00eb familjen ton\u00eb dhe \u00e7do her\u00eb do t\u00eb mbetesh e till\u00eb. U dallove p\u00ebr guximin, but\u00ebsin\u00eb, dhembshurin\u00eb dhe dashurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde. N\u00eb mesin e shoqeve u tregove gjithnj\u00eb bamir\u00ebse. Ti nuk ishe vet\u00ebm shoqe n\u00eb mesin e tyre, ku kalove n\u00ebnt\u00eb vite t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, por […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":541,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,22],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-540","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-e-zgjedhur","8":"category-shkrime-autoriale"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/540","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=540"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/540\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":542,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/540\/revisions\/542"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/541"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=540"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=540"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=540"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}