{"id":626,"date":"2019-03-04T11:39:48","date_gmt":"2019-03-04T11:39:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=626"},"modified":"2019-03-04T11:39:48","modified_gmt":"2019-03-04T11:39:48","slug":"vellazeria-ne-islam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/03\/04\/vellazeria-ne-islam\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u00ebllaz\u00ebria n\u00eb Islam"},"content":{"rendered":"

Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar thot\u00eb: \u201c<\/strong>At\u00eb dit\u00eb shok\u00ebt e ngusht\u00eb do t\u00eb jen\u00eb armiq t\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 atyre q\u00eb ishin t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb n\u00eb miq\u00ebsi.\u201d[1]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ebu Hurejra, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, transmeton nga Pejgamberi alejhi selam, i cili thot\u00eb: \u201cNjeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fen\u00eb e shokut t\u00eb tij, le t\u00eb shikoj\u00eb \u00e7donj\u00ebri nga ju se k\u00eb po b\u00ebn mik<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Kat\u00ebr faktor\u00eb p\u00ebr ruajtjen e lidhjeve v\u00ebllaz\u00ebrore <\/strong><\/p>\n

    \n
  1. Zgjedhja e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    \u00a0<\/strong>N\u00eb hadithin e lartp\u00ebrmendur, \u201c<\/strong>Njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fen\u00eb e shokut t\u00eb tij, le t\u00eb shikoj\u00eb \u00e7donj\u00ebri nga ju se k\u00eb po b\u00ebn mik\u201d, <\/em>kuptimi se njeriu posedon tradit\u00ebn e atij q\u00eb shoq\u00ebron, pason rrug\u00ebn e tij dhe ec\u00ebn sipas ecjes s\u00eb tij. Pra, le t\u00eb shikoj\u00eb dhe le t\u00eb meditoj\u00eb se \u201ck\u00eb po b\u00ebn mik\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

    N\u00eb \u201cAuvni elmabud\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrmendur: \u201cTransmeton Ebu Sejd el Hudrij se Pejgamberi sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201c<\/em><\/strong>Mos shoq\u00ebro p\u00ebrve\u00e7se besimtar\u00eb dhe mos lejo q\u00eb ta haj\u00eb ushqimin t\u00ebnd vet\u00ebm se njeriu i devotsh\u00ebm.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

    Ndalesa e shoq\u00ebrimit p\u00ebrfshin mosshoq\u00ebrimin e atyre q\u00eb veprojn\u00eb m\u00ebkate t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb prishur, ngase ata veprojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e ka ndaluar Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar dhe shoq\u00ebrimi i tyre t\u00eb b\u00ebn d\u00ebm n\u00eb fe. Ndalesa e till\u00eb p\u00ebrfshin mosshoq\u00ebrimin e jobesimtar\u00ebve dhe munafik\u00ebve. P\u00ebr th\u00ebnien \u201c… dhe mos lejo q\u00eb ta haj\u00eb ushqimin t\u00ebnd vet\u00ebm se njeriu i devotsh\u00ebm\u201d, <\/em>Hatabij ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cQ\u00ebllimi \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebhet ftesa vet\u00ebm atij q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i devotsh\u00ebm, por kur \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoja i jepet edhe atij q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i devotsh\u00ebm. Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar thot\u00eb: \u201cAta jan\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Tij u japin ushqim t\u00eb varf\u00ebrve, jetim\u00ebve dhe rob\u00ebrve.\u201d<\/strong>[2]<\/a><\/p>\n

    \u00cbsht\u00eb e ditur se rob\u00ebrit kan\u00eb qen\u00eb jobesimtar\u00eb dhe nuk kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb devotsh\u00ebm, por Muhamedi sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem na ka t\u00ebrhequr v\u00ebrejtjen p\u00ebr mosshoq\u00ebrimin e atyre q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb devotsh\u00ebm, mosp\u00ebrzierjen me ta dhe q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ulemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb me ta ngase dh\u00ebnia e ushqimit zbut zemrat dhe mbjell dashuri mes njer\u00ebzve.<\/p>\n

    Transmeton Ebu Musa Esharij, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, se Pejgamberi sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cShembulli i shoq\u00ebrimit t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqij \u00ebsht\u00eb sikurse shit\u00ebsi i miskut (parfumit) dhe fark\u00ebtari, ngase shit\u00ebsi i miskut ose t\u00eb parfumon, ose t\u00eb shet miskun ose merr nga ai er\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa fark\u00ebtari ose t\u2019i djeg rrobat ose t\u00eb l\u00eb er\u00eb t\u00eb keqe.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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    1. Dashuria p\u00ebr Allahun<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Pozita m\u00eb e madhe e v\u00ebllaz\u00ebris\u00eb n\u00eb Islam \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Allahut dhe jo ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur ndonj\u00eb grad\u00eb, as p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfituar di\u00e7ka e as p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar n\u00eb aspektin financiar.<\/p>\n

      E, kush duhet p\u00ebr Allahun dhe v\u00ebllaz\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr Allahun, e ka arritur q\u00ebllimin e duhur, por duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb kujdes q\u00eb t\u00eb mos lejoj\u00eb di\u00e7ka nga kjo bot\u00eb q\u00eb ta rrezikoj\u00eb apo ta rinoj\u00eb nj\u00eb v\u00ebllaz\u00ebrim t\u00eb till\u00eb.<\/p>\n

      P\u00ebrg\u00ebzim p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb duhen p\u00ebr Allahun, p\u00ebr premtimin q\u00eb u \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nga Allahu i Lart\u00ebsuar se do t\u00eb shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Kiametit dhe do t\u00eb futen n\u00ebn hijen e Arshit at\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka hije p\u00ebrve\u00e7 saj. Transmetohet nga Ebu Hurejra se Pejgamberi sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cse Allahu i Lart\u00ebsuar thot\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Kiametit: \u201cKu jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb dashur p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb madh\u00ebris\u00eb Sime? Sot do t\u2019i fus n\u00ebn hijen e Arshit Tim, kur nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb hije p\u00ebrve\u00e7 hijes Sime.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n

      Transmetohet nga Muadh bin Xhebeli, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, se ka d\u00ebgjuar Pejgamberin sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem duke th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cKa th\u00ebn\u00eb Allahu i Lart\u00ebsuar: \u201cM\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb obliguar dashuria ndaj atyre q\u00eb duhen p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Madh\u00ebris\u00eb Sime dhe atyre q\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb (s\u00eb bashku n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend) p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Madh\u00ebris\u00eb Sime dhe atyre q\u00eb vizitohen p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Madh\u00ebris\u00eb Sime dhe.<\/em>..\u201d<\/p>\n

      Transmetohet nga Ebu Hurejra se Pejgamberi sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: <\/strong>\u201cNj\u00eb njeri kishte vizituar nj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb shok t\u00eb tij. Allahu i Lart\u00ebsuar kishte d\u00ebrguar pas tij nj\u00eb melek. Kur iu afrua njeriut, i tha: -Ku do t\u00eb shkosh?
      \n-Dua t\u00eb takoj nj\u00eb v\u00eblla n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fshat. Ia ktheu: -Ke di\u00e7ka q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon prej tij (ke ndonj\u00eb interes)? I tha (vizitori): -Jo, vet\u00ebm se un\u00eb e dua p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Allahut. I tha: -Un\u00eb jam i d\u00ebrguar i Allahut, t\u00eb lajm\u00ebroj se Allahu t\u00eb do ashtu si\u00e7 e deshe ti at\u00eb p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Madh\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb Tij.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

      \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

      V\u00ebrejtje: <\/strong>\u00cbsht\u00eb e p\u00eblqyer q\u00eb ai i cili e do dik\u00eb, ta lajm\u00ebroj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb , ngase kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe prej Sunetit. Transmetohet nga Enes bin Maliku se ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cNj\u00eb njeri ishte te Pejgamberi sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem. Kaloi pran\u00eb tyre nj\u00eb njeri dhe ai i tha t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Allahut: \u201cUn\u00eb e dua k\u00ebt\u00eb person.\u201d I tha Pejgamberi sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem: \u201cA i ke treguar atij?\u201d Tha: \u201cJo.\u201d I tha: \u201cTregoji atij.\u201d I shkoi prapa dhe i tha: \u201cUn\u00eb t\u00eb dua p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Allahut.\u201d Ai ia ktheu: \u201cAllahu t\u00eb dasht\u00eb ashtu si m\u00eb<\/em><\/strong> do ti mua p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Tij<\/em><\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n

      Nd\u00ebrsa, imam Ahmedi ka sh\u00ebnuar: \u201cNxito dhe lajm\u00ebroje, q\u00eb t\u00eb mbillet dashuria mes jush.\u201d Shkoi dhe i tha: \u201cUn\u00eb t\u00eb dua p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Allahut\u201d, ose i tha \u201cun\u00eb t\u00eb dua p\u00ebr Allah\u201d. Ia ktheu personi: \u201cAllahu t\u00eb dasht\u00eb ashtu si m\u00eb do ti mua p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Tij.\u201d<\/p>\n

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      V\u00ebrejtje: <\/strong>Ajo q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb ata q\u00eb duhen p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Allahut \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb koh\u00eb pas kohe t\u2019i kontrollojn\u00eb zemrat e tyre: a thua vall\u00eb mos i ka kapluar ato di\u00e7ka dhe i largon nga q\u00ebllimi final, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Allahut? Dashuria n\u00eb fillim mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Allahut, por ajo nuk q\u00ebndron n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje n\u00ebse njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb i pakujdessh\u00ebm ndaj saj. Ajo mund t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb n\u00eb interes apo mund ta kaloj\u00eb kufirin e duhur dhe t\u00eb arrij\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur Allahu i Lart\u00ebsuar dhe i D\u00ebrguari i Tij.<\/p>\n

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      1. Buz\u00ebqeshja, but\u00ebsia , ngroht\u00ebsia me v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        M\u00eb e pakta q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb njeri ndaj v\u00ebllait t\u00eb tij \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ta takoj\u00eb me fytyr\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7elur dhe t\u2019ia p\u00ebrmend\u00eb emrin. \u00cbsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e edukat\u00ebs mes v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve q\u00eb \u00e7doher\u00eb kur ta takoj\u00eb v\u00ebllan\u00eb besimtar, t\u00eb jet\u00eb i g\u00ebzuar. Ebu Dheri, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cM\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb mua Profeti sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem: \u201cMos e p\u00ebrbuz t\u00eb mir\u00ebn, edhe n\u00ebse e takon v\u00ebllan\u00eb t\u00ebnd me fytyr\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7elur.\u201d <\/em>Nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb transmetimin e Xhabirit, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, thuhet: \u201c\u00c7do e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb sadaka dhe prej s\u00eb mir\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ta takosh v\u00ebllan\u00eb t\u00ebnd me fytyr\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7elur<\/em>… \u201d<\/p>\n

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        But\u00ebsia dhe ngroht\u00ebsia e forcon lidhjen v\u00ebllaz\u00ebrore dhe e thellon af\u00ebrsin\u00eb mes tyre. \u201cAllahu e do but\u00ebsin\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb dhe Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i but\u00eb, e do but\u00ebsin\u00eb, mund\u00ebson p\u00ebr t\u00eb but\u00ebn at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ia mund\u00ebson vrazhd\u00ebsis\u00eb…\u201d <\/em>E n\u00ebse \u00e7\u00ebshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, at\u00ebher\u00eb duhet q\u00eb v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit t\u00eb sillen me but\u00ebsi ndaj nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. <\/em>Transmeton Ibn Mesudi, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, se ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cKa th\u00ebn\u00eb Pejgamberi sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem: \u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb ndaluar p\u00ebr zjarrin q\u00eb ta djeg\u00eb \u00e7do (njeri) t\u00eb but\u00eb e t\u00eb af\u00ebrt me njer\u00ebzit.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n

        Prej gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsin\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb dhe largimin e urrejtjes nga zemrat \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja mes v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve. Transmeton Maliku n\u00eb \u201cMuvetan\u201d e tij, se Pejgamberi sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cP\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetuni mes jush q\u00eb t\u00eb largohet urrejtja dhe shk\u00ebmbeni dhurata n\u00eb mes jush, q\u00eb t\u00eb largohet prej jush armiq\u00ebsia.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n


        \n<\/em>Poeti thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n

        Shk\u00ebmbimi i dhuratave mes njer\u00ebzve <\/em><\/p>\n

        lind n\u00eb zemrat e tyre af\u00ebrsin\u00eb<\/em><\/p>\n

        Dhe mbjell tek ata dashurin\u00eb <\/em><\/p>\n

        dhe i zbukuron kur takohen. <\/em><\/p>\n

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        \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

          \n
        1. Sakrifica p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebshilluar v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00eblqyer <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          K\u00ebshilla \u00ebsht\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat e k\u00ebrkuara n\u00eb sheriat, e p\u00eblqyer nga Ligjv\u00ebn\u00ebsi. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nga \u00e7\u00ebshtjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat Pejgamberi sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem kishte marr\u00eb bes\u00ebn nga shok\u00ebt e tij. Si\u00e7 thot\u00eb Xherir bin Abdullahu, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij: <\/strong>\u201cIa kam dh\u00ebn\u00eb bes\u00ebn Pejgamberit sal-lallahu alejhi ue sel-lem q\u00eb ta fal namazin, ta jap zekatin dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebshilloj \u00e7do musliman.\u201d<\/p>\n

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          P\u00ebrzgjodhi: Rashit Zylfiu <\/strong><\/p>\n

          \u00a0<\/em>\u00a0<\/em>[1]<\/a> Ez-Zuhruf: 67.<\/p>\n

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          [2]<\/a> El-Insan: 8.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

          Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar thot\u00eb: \u201cAt\u00eb dit\u00eb shok\u00ebt e ngusht\u00eb do t\u00eb jen\u00eb armiq t\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 atyre q\u00eb ishin t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb n\u00eb miq\u00ebsi.\u201d[1] Ebu Hurejra, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, transmeton nga Pejgamberi alejhi selam, i cili thot\u00eb: \u201cNjeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fen\u00eb e shokut t\u00eb tij, le t\u00eb shikoj\u00eb \u00e7donj\u00ebri nga ju se k\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":627,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-626","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-artikuj","8":"category-e-zgjedhur"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/626","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=626"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/626\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":628,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/626\/revisions\/628"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/627"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=626"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=626"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=626"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}