{"id":799,"date":"2019-05-31T00:01:10","date_gmt":"2019-05-31T00:01:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=799"},"modified":"2019-05-31T00:01:10","modified_gmt":"2019-05-31T00:01:10","slug":"jeta-pas-ramazanit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/05\/31\/jeta-pas-ramazanit\/","title":{"rendered":"Jeta pas Ramazanit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fal\u00ebnderimet i takojn\u00eb Allahut q\u00eb na udh\u00ebzoi n\u00eb Islam, se sikur t\u00eb mos na udh\u00ebzonte Allahu, nuk do t\u00eb ishim nga t\u00eb udh\u00ebzuarit. At\u00eb e fal\u00ebnderojm\u00eb dhe e madh\u00ebrojm\u00eb. Jemi krenar\u00eb q\u00eb e njohim Allahun ashtu si duhet, pasi shumica e njer\u00ebzve nuk e njohin At\u00eb. Jemi\u00a0 krenar\u00eb q\u00eb e adhurojm\u00eb si t\u00eb vet\u00ebm duke mos i shoq\u00ebruar ask\u00ebnd si rival. Jemi krenar\u00eb q\u00eb falemi dhe agj\u00ebrojm\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt nuk i njohin k\u00ebto adhurime.<\/p>\n<p>\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064f \u0646\u064e\u0641\u0652\u0633\u064d \u0630\u064e\u0627\u0626\u0650\u0642\u064e\u0629\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0648\u0652\u062a\u0650\u00a0\u06d7\u00a0\u0648\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064f\u0648\u064e\u0641\u0651\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0646\u064e \u0623\u064f\u062c\u064f\u0648\u0631\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0645\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0642\u0650\u064a\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064e\u0629\u0650\u00a0\u06d6\u00a0\u0641\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646 \u0632\u064f\u062d\u0652\u0632\u0650\u062d\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0631\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0623\u064f\u062f\u0652\u062e\u0650\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062c\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0641\u064e\u0627\u0632\u064e\u00a0\u06d7\u00a0\u0648\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0627\u0629\u064f \u0627\u0644\u062f\u0651\u064f\u0646\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0627\u0639\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u063a\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0631\u0650<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201c\u00c7do shpirt do ta shijoj\u00eb vdekjen. Shp\u00ebrblimet do t\u2019u plot\u00ebsohen vet\u00ebm n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Kiametit; kushdo q\u00eb shp\u00ebton nga zjarri i xhehenemit dhe hyn n\u00eb xhenet, ai ka fituar (gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb mund t\u00eb d\u00ebshirohet). Nd\u00ebrsa jeta e k\u00ebsaj bote \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi mashtruese.&#8221;<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb nderuar v\u00ebllez\u00ebr!<\/p>\n<p>Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb ligji i Allahut, q\u00eb nuk ndryshohet, <strong><em>\u201c\u00e7do shpirt do ta shijoj\u00eb vdekjen\u201d.<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> <\/em><\/strong>Por a duhet t\u00eb ndalemi k\u00ebtu apo t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb se cilat jan\u00eb shp\u00ebrblimet tona pas vdekjes, se a do t\u00eb na g\u00ebzojn\u00eb apo hidh\u00ebrojn\u00eb ato? Ramazani nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm se nj\u00eb stacion gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebtimit ton\u00eb p\u00ebr n\u00eb bot\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, ku ne besimtar\u00ebt jemi t\u00eb thirrur t\u00eb ndalemi p\u00ebr t&#8217;u pajisur me vepra t\u00eb mira dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, q\u00eb ky iman dhe vullnet q\u00eb na jep Ramazani t\u00eb na ndihmoj\u00eb n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn e mbetur t\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>A nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb muaji i Ramazanit pik\u00ebrisht ai muaj gjat\u00eb t\u00eb cilit ne k\u00ebrkuam fitoren e\u00a0 madhe, shp\u00ebtimin nga zjarri dhe hyrjen n\u00eb xhenet p\u00ebr tridhjet\u00eb dit\u00eb? Por ne ende jemi gjall\u00eb, jeta na pret dhe duhet t\u00eb punojm\u00eb p\u00ebr ta fituar xhenetin dhe p\u00ebr t&#8217;i shp\u00ebtuar zjarrit dhe q\u00eb gjat\u00eb udh\u00ebtimit ton\u00eb t\u00eb jemi sa m\u00eb t\u00eb past\u00ebr nga njollat e m\u00ebkateve, nga t\u00eb cilat na pastroi Ramazani.<\/p>\n<p>Pik\u00ebrisht, t\u00eb nderuar v\u00ebllez\u00ebr, ne duhet ta pyesim veten cil\u00ebn jet\u00eb d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb pas Ramazanit, at\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb e t\u00eb lumtur q\u00eb na m\u00ebsoi Ramazani apo at\u00eb jet\u00eb plot telashe, si\u00e7 e k\u00ebrkon djalli. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb dy jan\u00eb rrug\u00ebt. Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>\u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0647\u064e\u062f\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627\u0647\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0651\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0644\u064e \u0625\u0650\u0645\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0634\u064e\u0627\u0643\u0650\u0631\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0645\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0643\u064e\u0641\u064f\u0648\u0631\u064b\u0627<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cNatyrisht q\u00eb Ne i treguam atij rrug\u00ebn e drejt\u00eb, q\u00eb ai t\u00eb jet\u00eb ose mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs, ose mosmir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\">[4]<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb nderuar besimtar\u00eb!<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>Jeta pas Ramazanit duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb ajo q\u00eb Zoti k\u00ebrkon prej nesh. Kjo na ndihmon edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb sepse vet\u00ebm sa dol\u00ebm nga bankat e shkoll\u00ebs q\u00eb quhet Ramazan. P\u00ebr tridhjet\u00eb dit\u00eb jetuam, m\u00ebsuam, u edukuam n\u00ebn hijen e tij e tash duhet patjet\u00ebr q\u00eb k\u00ebto m\u00ebsime t&#8217;i jet\u00ebsojm\u00eb sepse p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb agj\u00ebruam, p\u00ebr ta privuar veten nga ushqimi dhe pija?! \u00c7far\u00eb p\u00ebrfituam nga Ramazani, n\u00ebse nuk shihet jet\u00ebsimi i tij n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb?<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Hapat drejt nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb lumtur pas Ramazanit <\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Jeta pas Ramazanit duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr Allah dhe me Allahun, ngase Ramazani na m\u00ebsoi k\u00ebshtu. A nuk ishte agj\u00ebrimi yn\u00eb nga 17 or\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb p\u00ebr Allahun, Krijuesin Ton\u00eb, se Ai e k\u00ebrkoi nga ne dhe ne u p\u00ebrgjigj\u00ebm jetuam me Allahun duke i kryer edhe obligimet ishim m\u00eb af\u00ebr Tij k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet ta vazhdojm\u00eb edhe pas Ramazanit q\u00eb jeta jon\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr Allah dhe me Allahun.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>N\u00eb \u00e7do vep\u00ebr ka vend dyfaq\u00ebsi, pos n\u00eb Ramazan jo, ngase ti ke mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb hash e pish dhe pa e ditur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por nuk e b\u00ebn nga sinqeriteti yt, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr Allah, sepse je i bindur se Ai t\u00eb sheh. Ti ke mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb falesh p\u00ebr syefaqe, t\u00eb jap\u00ebsh, t\u00eb ndihmosh por jo edhe t\u00eb agj\u00ebrosh. Andaj le t\u00eb jet\u00eb jeta jon\u00eb pas Ramazanit, veprat dhe pun\u00ebt tona vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Allahut, larg nga dyfaq\u00ebsia dhe jo p\u00ebr hat\u00ebr t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>A nuk ishte objektiva kryesore q\u00eb Ramazani sjell dhe boshti rreth t\u00eb cilit sillet ky muaj q\u00eb t\u00eb mbjell\u00eb tek ne devotshm\u00ebrin\u00eb duke marr\u00eb hapat e duhur q\u00eb edhe pas Ramazanit ashtu si n\u00eb Ramazan, kur e privuam veten nga gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb n\u00eb esenc\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb lejuara, t&#8217;u themi jo harameve, pasi p\u00ebr to n\u00eb barkun ton\u00eb nuk ka vend. Prej fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00ebve tan\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb ishte: \u201cSikur t\u00eb fal\u00ebsh namaz, sa q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb shtyllat, nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb dobi derisa t\u00eb shikosh se \u00e7far\u00eb po fut n\u00eb barkun t\u00ebnd.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>A nuk na m\u00ebsoi Ramazani se si duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb raportet tona me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt n\u00ebse ata na pengojn\u00eb apo zihemi me dik\u00eb q\u00eb ne t&#8217;i themi &#8220;un\u00eb jam agj\u00ebruesh\u00ebm&#8221;? Sa e bukur do t\u00eb ishte jeta jon\u00eb q\u00eb ne t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb moto edhe jasht\u00eb Ramazanit, q\u00eb t&#8217;u themi t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve \u201cun\u00eb jam agj\u00ebruesh\u00ebm, nuk ke pun\u00eb me mua\u201d. I suksessh\u00ebm te Zoti \u00ebsht\u00eb ai i cili merret me gabimet veta dhe i l\u00eb gabimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/li>\n<li>Sofra e iftarit ishte simbolika e unitetit familjar dhe v\u00ebllaz\u00ebror se si duhet t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb me t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit tan\u00eb edhe pas Ramazanit, andaj dije se t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tu kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty dhe e meritojn\u00eb dhe e presin mbik\u00ebqyrjen t\u00ebnde edhe pas Ramazanit. Mos mendo se me sadakan\u00eb e fitrit e ke kryer obligimin ndaj tyre n\u00ebse kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb. Mbajtja e lidhjeve farefisnore t\u00eb \u00e7on drejt krenaris\u00eb, sjell riskun, suksesin n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe i mbush zemrat plot hare. I D\u00ebrguari sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem thot\u00eb: <em>\u201c<strong>Kush d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb t\u2019i shtohet risku dhe t\u2019i zgjatet jeta, le t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb lidhjet me farefisin e tij.<\/strong>\u201d<\/em> <a href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\">[5]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I af\u00ebrmi yt \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jotja. N\u00ebse investon p\u00ebr t\u00eb, ke investuar p\u00ebr personalitetin t\u00ebnd dhe n\u00ebse nuk ke me \u00e7far\u00eb ta ndihmosh, at\u00ebher\u00eb thuaji fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mira. Urrejtja dhe konflikti mes farefisit \u00ebsht\u00eb sherr dhe bela e madhe. Ai q\u00eb mendon se ka fituar n\u00eb konfliktet farefisnore \u00ebsht\u00eb i humbur n\u00eb dynja dhe ahiret. \u00c7do i af\u00ebrm do t\u00eb vij\u00eb n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Kiametit dhe do t\u00eb d\u00ebshmoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin e tij n\u00ebse i ka mbajtur lidhjet apo jo.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Vazhdim\u00ebsia n\u00eb vepra t\u00eb mira. N\u00ebse Ramazani ka p\u00ebrfunduar, veprat e mira nuk p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb. Menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas Ramazanit vijn\u00eb gjasht\u00eb dit\u00eb e muajit sheval. Pejgamberi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem ka th\u00ebn\u00eb<em>: \u201cKush e ka agj\u00ebruar Ramazanin e m\u00eb pas e pason me gjasht\u00eb dit\u00eb nga shevali, \u00ebsht\u00eb sikur t\u00eb agj\u00ebroj\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb vitin.\u201d <a href=\"#_ftn6\" name=\"_ftnref6\"><strong>[6]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>E m\u00eb pas mbetet namazi, duaja, leximi i Kuranit, sadakaja edhe shum\u00eb vepra t\u00eb mira, se Zoti \u00ebsht\u00eb i gjall\u00eb dhe i p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm. Le t\u00eb jet\u00eb motoja jote &#8220;veprat le t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdueshme edhe n\u00ebse jan\u00eb t\u00eb pakta&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Frika nga mospranimi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u064a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0622\u062a\u064e\u0648\u0627 \u0648\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0628\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u062c\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0629\u064c \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0649\u0670 \u0631\u064e\u0628\u0650\u0651\u0647\u0650\u0645\u0652 \u0631\u064e\u0627\u062c\u0650\u0639\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0\u201c&#8230; dhe ata t\u00eb cil\u00ebt japin (sadaka-zekat) nga ajo q\u00eb u \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb, pse din\u00eb se do t\u00eb kthehen te Zoti i tyre, andaj zemrat e tyre i kan\u00eb t\u00eb frik\u00ebsuara.\u201d <a href=\"#_ftn7\" name=\"_ftnref7\">[7]<\/a> <\/em><\/strong>Pejgamberi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem ka th\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz: &#8220;Agj\u00ebrojn\u00eb, falen, japin l\u00ebmosh\u00eb dhe kan\u00eb frik\u00eb se nuk u pranohen veprat.&#8221; <a href=\"#_ftn8\" name=\"_ftnref8\">[8]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Aliu, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, thot\u00eb: \u201c\u00c7do dit\u00eb q\u00eb nuk i b\u00ebhet m\u00ebkat Allahut p\u00ebr ne \u00ebsht\u00eb fest\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Data:24\/08\/2012<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Al\u2019imran: 185.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Al, Imran, 185<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> Insan: 3.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">[5]<\/a> Sh\u00ebnon Buhariu.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref6\" name=\"_ftn6\">[6]<\/a> Sh\u00ebnon Muslimi<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref7\" name=\"_ftn7\">[7]<\/a> Muminun: 60.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref8\" name=\"_ftn8\">[8]<\/a> Sh\u00ebnon Termidhiu, Bejhakiu. Shih tefsirin e ibn Kethirit komentimi i sures Muminun, 60<\/p>\n<p>Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n<p>Burimi: rashitzylfiu.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fal\u00ebnderimet i takojn\u00eb Allahut q\u00eb na udh\u00ebzoi n\u00eb Islam, se sikur t\u00eb mos na udh\u00ebzonte Allahu, nuk do t\u00eb ishim nga t\u00eb udh\u00ebzuarit. At\u00eb e fal\u00ebnderojm\u00eb dhe e madh\u00ebrojm\u00eb. Jemi krenar\u00eb q\u00eb e njohim Allahun ashtu si duhet, pasi shumica e njer\u00ebzve nuk e njohin At\u00eb. Jemi\u00a0 krenar\u00eb q\u00eb e adhurojm\u00eb si t\u00eb vet\u00ebm duke [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":800,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,22],"tags":[43],"class_list":{"0":"post-799","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-e-zgjedhur","8":"category-shkrime-autoriale","9":"tag-kandilat-e-ramazanit"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/799","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=799"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/799\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":801,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/799\/revisions\/801"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/800"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=799"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=799"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=799"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}