{"id":817,"date":"2019-06-23T07:44:04","date_gmt":"2019-06-23T07:44:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=817"},"modified":"2019-06-23T07:44:04","modified_gmt":"2019-06-23T07:44:04","slug":"shkaqet-e-ngurtesise-se-zemres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/06\/23\/shkaqet-e-ngurtesise-se-zemres\/","title":{"rendered":"Shkaqet e ngurt\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb zemr\u00ebs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ajo zem\u00ebr \u00e7i o ndryshk\u00ebn me gjynah<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019i vjen n\u2019hat\u00ebr, kurrnjiher\u00eb me thon\u00eb Allah<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Arsyet pse zemrat tona forcohen jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe rrezikshm\u00ebria e tyre shtohet \u00e7do her\u00eb kur shtohen edhe k\u00ebto shkaqe. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shkaqet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb dim\u00eb jan\u00eb k\u00ebto:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Kapja e zemr\u00ebs pas k\u00ebsaj bote dhe harrimi i ahiretit <\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebr shkaqet kryesore q\u00eb ngurt\u00ebsojn\u00eb zemr\u00ebn. Kur dashuria dhe lidhja e fort\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb e mundin dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, imani dob\u00ebsohet dal\u00ebngadal\u00eb derisa ibadeti b\u00ebhet i r\u00ebnd\u00eb dhe i bezdissh\u00ebm. K\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb njeriu e gjen vet\u00ebm n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e k\u00ebsaj bote dhe e harron ahiretin, e harron at\u00eb q\u00eb ia prish k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj bote, vdekjen, dhe fillon ta mashtroj\u00eb veten. E n\u00ebse kjo bela e kaplon njeriun, ve\u00e7se e shkat\u00ebrron at\u00eb. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dynjaja \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb-pjes\u00eb, kur anon zemra nga nj\u00ebra prej tyre, largohet nga Allahu. Kur njeriu largohet nga Allahu dhe nuk gjen gatishm\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u2019u kthyer dhe vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb larg Allahut, do t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrohet n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej luginave t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj dynjaje. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ky njeri harroi Krijuesin e vet dhe filloi t\u00eb madh\u00ebroj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e meriton- dynjan\u00eb. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">T\u00eb par\u00ebt tan\u00eb kan\u00eb treguar se njeriu ka dy sy n\u00eb ball\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shikoj\u00eb dynjan\u00eb dhe dy sy n\u00eb zem\u00ebr me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt t\u00eb shikoj\u00eb ahiretin. Kur Allahu ia do t\u00eb mir\u00ebn njeriut, ia mund\u00ebson q\u00eb me syt\u00eb e zemr\u00ebs ta shikoj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb Allahu ka premtuar p\u00ebr besimtar\u00ebt, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gajb dhe nuk shikohet me syt\u00eb e ballit. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allahu thot\u00eb:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u201c<\/i><\/b><b><i>apo n\u00eb zemrat e tyre ka dryna?!\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Pakujdesia <\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kjo s\u00ebmundje e rrezikshme po q\u00eb se arrin ta mbizot\u00ebroj\u00eb zemr\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb n\u00eb fizikun njer\u00ebzor, i mbyll t\u00eb gjitha rrug\u00ebt e udh\u00ebzimit dhe m\u00eb pas i vulos zemrat. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allahu thot\u00eb:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b><i> \u201c<\/i><\/b><b><i>K\u00ebta jan\u00eb ata t\u00eb cil\u00ebve Per\u00ebndia ua ka vulosur zemrat e tyre, t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuarit dhe t\u00eb shikuarit e tyre dhe k\u00ebta jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb shkujdesur.<\/i><\/b><b><i>\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ibn<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kajimi<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">thot\u00eb: \u201cKur njeriu mediton p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjen e gafletit, shumic\u00ebn e njer\u00ebzve e gjen se kan\u00eb d\u00ebshtuar n\u00eb p\u00ebrmendjen e Allahut, duke pasuar pasionet e tyre dhe kan\u00eb harruar se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dobi t\u00eb tyre duke u preokupuar me at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk u sjell dobi dhe u kthehet n\u00eb d\u00ebm t\u00eb tyre her\u00ebt apo von\u00eb.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pakujdesia e ngurt\u00ebson zemr\u00ebn, e cila nuk frik\u00ebsohet dhe nuk zbutet, asaj nuk i b\u00ebn dobi k\u00ebshilla sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e fort\u00eb se guri. Syt\u00eb i shohin gj\u00ebrat nga jasht\u00eb, jo nga brenda, nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb dallojn\u00eb t\u00eb dobishmen dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebmshmen, kurse vesh\u00ebt e t\u00eb pakujdesshmit jan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb \u00e7doher\u00eb t\u00eb kot\u00ebn, rren\u00ebn, p\u00ebrgojimin. I pakujdesshmi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb fjal\u00ebn e Allahut dhe t\u00eb Resulullahut.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allahu i p\u00ebrshkruan n\u00eb Kur\u2019an:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i> \u201c<\/i><\/b><b><i>Ne kemi krijuar, me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, shum\u00eb xhind\u00eb dhe njer\u00ebz p\u00ebr xhehenem: ata kan\u00eb zemra (mend) me t\u00eb cilat nuk kuptojn\u00eb, kan\u00eb sy me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk shohin, kan\u00eb vesh\u00eb me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb. Ata jan\u00eb si shtaz\u00eb, madje, edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb zi. Ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb pakujdessh\u00ebm.<\/i><\/b><b><i>\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Shoq\u00ebrimi me shok\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqij n\u00eb ambiente t\u00eb pista<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebr shkaqet q\u00eb ka m\u00eb tep\u00ebr ndikim sepse njeriu ndikohet nga ata q\u00eb ka p\u00ebrreth. Si t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb i till\u00eb kur njeriu jeton n\u00eb mesin e atyre q\u00eb koh\u00ebn e kalojn\u00eb n\u00eb harame dhe gj\u00ebra t\u00eb urryera, kur e gjith\u00eb jeta e tyre kalon n\u00eb shaka dhe duke qeshur! Ai vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb k\u00ebshtu derisa zemra t\u2019i pranoj\u00eb k\u00ebto pun\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija dhe t\u2019i vuloset zemra. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>M\u00ebkatet e shumta b\u00ebhen di\u00e7ka e natyrshme<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u00ebkati edhe kur \u00ebsht\u00eb i vog\u00ebl ia b\u00ebn gati rrug\u00ebn shokut t\u00eb tij dhe ia leht\u00ebson p\u00ebrderisa njeriu nuk e di rrezikun e m\u00ebkatit. Zemra fillon t\u2019i thith\u00eb nj\u00eb nga nj\u00eb derisa \u00e7do gj\u00eb duket shum\u00eb e natyrshme dhe asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e gatshme p\u00ebr t\u2019i l\u00ebn\u00eb ato. Kjo b\u00ebn q\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb zem\u00ebr t\u00eb mos madh\u00ebrohet Allahu sepse ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e gatshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e Tij.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allahu thot\u00eb: <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u201c<\/i><\/b><b><i>E, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu! Por, veprat e tyre (t\u00eb k\u00ebqija) i kan\u00eb ndryshkur zemrat e tyre (i kan\u00eb nxir\u00eb).<\/i><\/b><b><i>\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Harresa e vdekjes, momentet e agonis\u00eb s\u00eb saj dhe q\u00ebndrimi n\u00eb varr<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">T\u00eb gjitha stacionet pas vdekjes t\u00eb cilat ka p\u00ebrmendur Allahu n\u00eb Kur\u2019an dhe na ka paralajm\u00ebruar i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut jan\u00eb nga shkaqet q\u00eb n\u00ebse njeriu nuk i kujton, e b\u00ebjn\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e fort\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pejgamberi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem ka th\u00ebn\u00eb <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cVdekja na mjafton si k\u00ebshill\u00eb.\u201d <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N\u00eb momentin e fundit q\u00eb u nda nga kjo dynja tha<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: \u201cMe t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb vdekja ka agonin\u00eb e saj.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Preokupimi me at\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebn zemr\u00ebn t\u00eb ngurt\u00eb<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pes\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb e prishin zemr\u00ebn sipas Ibn Kajimit jan\u00eb:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lidhja e zemr\u00ebs me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr pos Allahut<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ushqimi dhe pija e tep\u00ebrt<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shoq\u00ebria e tep\u00ebrt me njer\u00ebz<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">T\u00eb folurit e tep\u00ebrt<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gjumi i tep\u00ebrt.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n<p>Seria: PSE PENDIMI?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Ajo zem\u00ebr \u00e7i o ndryshk\u00ebn me gjynah S\u2019i vjen n\u2019hat\u00ebr, kurrnjiher\u00eb me thon\u00eb Allah. &nbsp; Arsyet pse zemrat tona forcohen jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe rrezikshm\u00ebria e tyre shtohet \u00e7do her\u00eb kur shtohen edhe k\u00ebto shkaqe. Shkaqet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb dim\u00eb jan\u00eb k\u00ebto: &nbsp; Kapja e zemr\u00ebs pas k\u00ebsaj bote dhe harrimi [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":818,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,22],"tags":[44],"class_list":{"0":"post-817","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-e-zgjedhur","8":"category-shkrime-autoriale","9":"tag-pse-pendimi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/817","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=817"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/817\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":819,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/817\/revisions\/819"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=817"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=817"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=817"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}