{"id":820,"date":"2019-06-26T12:57:19","date_gmt":"2019-06-26T12:57:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=820"},"modified":"2019-06-26T12:57:19","modified_gmt":"2019-06-26T12:57:19","slug":"ilacet-per-sherimin-e-zemres-se-ngurte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/06\/26\/ilacet-per-sherimin-e-zemres-se-ngurte\/","title":{"rendered":"Ila\u00e7et p\u00ebr sh\u00ebrimin e zemr\u00ebs s\u00eb ngurt\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ka disa rrug\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00eb but\u00eb e t\u00eb frik\u00ebsuar karshi Krijuesit t\u00eb saj, q\u00eb t\u00eb kthehet tek Allahu kur largohet prej Tij, q\u00eb t\u00eb ndalet tek kufijt\u00eb e Tij kur i ka shkelur m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk ka mir\u00ebsi m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb sesa ta ket\u00eb njeriu zemr\u00ebn e but\u00eb, pasi \u00e7do zem\u00ebr q\u00eb privohet nga kjo mir\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb af\u00ebr d\u00ebnimit t\u00eb Allahut.N\u00eb \u00e7do zem\u00ebr q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e but\u00eb, kur p\u00ebrmendet emri i Allahut do ta gjesh pronarin e saj t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb vepra t\u00eb mira, t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb adhurim dhe larg m\u00ebkatit.<\/p>\n<p>Ja hapat q\u00eb e zbutin zemr\u00ebn:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Njohja e Allahut <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Kush e njeh Krijuesin e vet, i zbutet zemra. Kush nuk e njeh At\u00eb, i forcohet zemra si guri. \u00c7doher\u00eb personat q\u00eb jan\u00eb larg Allahut jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb i shkelin kufijt\u00eb, jan\u00eb ata zem\u00ebrfort\u00eb. E kund\u00ebrta ndodh me ata persona q\u00eb jan\u00eb af\u00ebr Allahut, q\u00eb i respektojn\u00eb kufijt\u00eb dhe rrin\u00eb larg harame, ata jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz zem\u00ebrbut\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong>P\u00ebrkujtimi i vdekjes dhe stacioneve pas saj <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Agonia e vdekjes, pyetjet dhe err\u00ebsira n\u00eb varr, shkuarja n\u00eb varrime b\u00ebjn\u00eb q\u00eb nefsi t\u00eb zgjohet nga gjumi i dynjas\u00eb dhe nga gafleti e k\u00ebshtu zbutet dhe kthehet tek Zoti pasi ishte larguar.<\/p>\n<p>Pejgamberi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem i k\u00ebshillonte shok\u00ebt e tij duke u th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cKujtoni at\u00eb q\u00eb ua prish k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj dynjaje (vdekja).\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong>Vizita e varrezave dhe p\u00ebrkujtimi i gjendjes s\u00eb banor\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Si jan\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar trupat e tyre n\u00ebn dh\u00e8? Si jetonin dje, hanin e pinin dhe arg\u00ebtoheshin, kurse sot jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dh\u00e8 n\u00eb varret e tyre dhe lan\u00eb pas pasurin\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe familjen e tyre. P\u00ebrkujtoni se nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb jeni prej banor\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre. Vizita e varreve \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrkujtim p\u00ebr t\u00eb pakujdesshmit.<\/p>\n<p>Pejgamberi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel -lem thot\u00eb: \u201cUa pata ndaluar vizit\u00ebn e varrezave. A nuk po i vizitoni ato? Sepse ato zbutin zemr\u00ebn, lotojn\u00eb syrin, p\u00ebrkujtojn\u00eb ahiretin.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong>Meditimi i ajeteve kur\u2019anore<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Meditoni p\u00ebr shp\u00ebrblimin dhe nd\u00ebshkimin, urdh\u00ebresat dhe ndalesat. Nuk ndodh q\u00eb njeriu ta lexoj\u00eb fjal\u00ebn e Zotit duke qen\u00eb e pranishme edhe zemra e tij, pra duke medituar, e t\u00eb mos gjej\u00eb se syri do t\u00eb lotoj\u00eb, zemra do t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb frik\u00ebrespekt ndaj Allahut dhe imani do t\u00eb l\u00ebviz\u00eb sepse d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ec\u00eb drejt Krijuesit.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cAllahu e ka shpallur fjal\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur \u2013 librin (Kur\u2019anin), pjes\u00ebt e t\u00eb cilit i ngjasojn\u00eb nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebs dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebriten. Prej tij u rr\u00ebqethet l\u00ebkura atyre q\u00eb frikohen prej Zotit t\u00eb tyre, e mandej qet\u00ebsohen dhe k\u00ebnaqen l\u00ebkurat dhe zemrat e tyre, kur p\u00ebrmendet Allahu (dhe premtimi i Tij). Ky lib\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb udh\u00ebzim i Allahut , me t\u00eb Allahu e udh\u00ebzon k\u00eb t\u00eb doj\u00eb, e k\u00eb Allahu e shpie n\u00eb humbje, s\u2019ka kush q\u00eb mund ta udh\u00ebzoj\u00eb.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong>P\u00ebrkujtimi i bot\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrkujtimi i xhenetit dhe asaj q\u00eb ka p\u00ebrgatitur Allahu prej t\u00eb mirave t\u00eb Tij p\u00ebr besimtar\u00ebt, por edhe p\u00ebrkujtimi i xhehenemit dhe zjarrit t\u00eb tij i b\u00ebn mir\u00eb zemr\u00ebs s\u00eb pakujdesshme, s\u00eb cil\u00ebs i kan\u00eb vdekur ambiciet p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar vepra t\u00eb mira dhe b\u00ebn q\u00eb njeriu t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e Zotit.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li><strong>Shpeshtimi i dhikrit dhe istigfarit <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Zemra b\u00ebhet e ngurt\u00eb dhe nuk e largon at\u00eb pos p\u00ebrmendja e Allahut. Besimtari patjet\u00ebr duhet ta mjekoj\u00eb zemr\u00ebn me p\u00ebrmendjen e Allahut.<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb person i kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb Hasen el Basriut: \u201cPo ankohem se zemra ime \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb e ngurt\u00eb.\u201d I tha: \u201cLargoje me p\u00ebrmendje t\u00eb Allahut.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrmendja e Allahut e shkrin ngurt\u00ebsin\u00eb e zemr\u00ebs ashtu si\u00e7 shkrihet plumbi n\u00eb zjarr. Ibn Kajimi thot\u00eb: \u201cZemra ndryshket me dy gj\u00ebra: m\u00ebkati dhe pakujdesia. At\u00eb e largon vet\u00ebm istigfari dhe dhikri.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li><strong>Vizita e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb devotsh\u00ebm, shoq\u00ebrimi me ta dhe q\u00ebndrimi af\u00ebr tyre<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Njer\u00ebzit e devotsh\u00ebm t\u00eb marrin p\u00ebr dore kur dob\u00ebsohesh, t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujtojn\u00eb kur harron, t\u00eb udh\u00ebzojn\u00eb kur nuk di dhe t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb n\u00eb adhurim.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cDhe b\u00ebhu i duruesh\u00ebm me ata q\u00eb i luten Zotit t\u00eb vet, n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes dhe mbr\u00ebmje, duke d\u00ebshiruar k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e Tij dhe mos i shmang syt\u00eb e tu nga ata (n\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb), duke d\u00ebshiruar stolit\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj jete. Mos d\u00ebgjo at\u00eb \u2013 zemr\u00ebn e t\u00eb cilit ia kemi l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb zbraz\u00ebt nga t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendurit Neve dhe q\u00eb i ndjek qejfet (epshet) e veta dhe pun\u00ebt e t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb t\u00eb shfrenuara.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\">[4]<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Xhafer bin Sulejmani thot\u00eb: \u201cSa her\u00eb q\u00eb gjeja n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn time ngurt\u00ebsi, shpejtoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb shikuar fytyr\u00ebn e Muhamed bin Vasit\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li><strong>Vet\u00ebllogaritja dhe qortimi i vetvetes<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Njeriu n\u00ebse nuk e merr n\u00eb pyetje veten dhe nuk e qorton p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb mang\u00ebsive q\u00eb ka, n\u00ebse nuk e akuzon p\u00ebr p\u00ebrtaci dhe neglizhim karshi obligimeve t\u00eb Allahut, nuk mund ta kuptoj\u00eb realitetin e s\u00ebmundjes. N\u00ebse nuk e di s\u00ebmundjen, si ta k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb pastaj ila\u00e7in? Patjet\u00ebr q\u00eb duhet ta p\u00ebrkujtoj\u00eb nefsin n\u00eb momentet kur dob\u00ebsohet dhe ta zgjoj\u00eb nga pakujdesia, ta njoftoj\u00eb me t\u00eb mirat q\u00eb Allahu i ka dhuruar, ta kontrolloj\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do hap t\u00eb vog\u00ebl apo t\u00eb madh sepse vet\u00ebm k\u00ebshtu mund ta menaxhoj\u00eb nefisn dhe ta udh\u00ebheq\u00eb nga e mbara.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Zot, na dhuro zemra t\u00eb frik\u00ebsuara dhe gjuh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendin Ty. D\u00ebrgojm\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjet m\u00eb t\u00eb mira ndaj Pejgamberit sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Sh\u00ebnon Bejhakiu. Albani hadithin e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb (hasen).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Sh\u00ebnon Hakimi. Albani e ka sakt\u00ebsuar .<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Zumer: 23.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> Kehf: 28.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n<p>Seria: Pse pendimi?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Ka disa rrug\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00eb but\u00eb e t\u00eb frik\u00ebsuar karshi Krijuesit t\u00eb saj, q\u00eb t\u00eb kthehet tek Allahu kur largohet prej Tij, q\u00eb t\u00eb ndalet tek kufijt\u00eb e Tij kur i ka shkelur m\u00eb par\u00eb. Nuk ka mir\u00ebsi m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb sesa ta ket\u00eb njeriu zemr\u00ebn e but\u00eb, pasi \u00e7do zem\u00ebr [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":821,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,22],"tags":[44],"class_list":{"0":"post-820","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-e-zgjedhur","8":"category-shkrime-autoriale","9":"tag-pse-pendimi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=820"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/820\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":822,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/820\/revisions\/822"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/821"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}