{"id":847,"date":"2019-07-05T13:13:02","date_gmt":"2019-07-05T13:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=847"},"modified":"2019-07-05T13:13:02","modified_gmt":"2019-07-05T13:13:02","slug":"agjenda-e-islamit-ne-edukimin-e-femijeve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/07\/05\/agjenda-e-islamit-ne-edukimin-e-femijeve\/","title":{"rendered":"Agjenda e Islamit n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve"},"content":{"rendered":"<ul>\n<li><strong>Islami dhe edukimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Edukimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve gjithmon\u00eb ka paraqitur fush\u00ebn n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn \u00e7do individ ka d\u00ebshiruar t\u00eb spikatet e t\u00eb d\u00ebshmohet. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nga njeriu i par\u00eb e gjer m\u00eb sot, p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb baballar\u00ebt dhe n\u00ebnat, pa marr\u00eb parasysh nivelin e arsimimit, karakteristik\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekja q\u00eb pasardh\u00ebsve t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb dashur t\u2019u m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb konsiderojn\u00eb se do t\u2019u duhen n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ndon\u00ebse kjo d\u00ebshir\u00eb e kjo p\u00ebrpjekje \u00ebsht\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht e fuqishme, pa p\u00ebrjashtime, te \u00e7do prind, v\u00ebrejm\u00eb nj\u00eb dallim drastik n\u00eb edukimin, kultur\u00ebn dhe sjelljen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb familjeve t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>\n<p>Edukimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb objektivi par\u00ebsor n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb ngase ka nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb madhe me interesin ton\u00eb, q\u00eb kthehet tek prindi, f\u00ebmija dhe e t\u00ebr\u00eb shoq\u00ebria, ngase e ardhmja e nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie shikohet nga prizmi se si jan\u00eb duke u edukuar gjeneratat e reja.<\/p>\n<p>Islami e ka vendosur edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb agjend\u00ebn e vet si primare dhe i jep r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe. N\u00eb krye t\u00eb k\u00ebtij projekti ishte vet\u00eb Pejgamberi Muhamed alejhi selam, edhe pse ishte Profet dhe burr\u00eb shteti. At\u00eb nuk e pengoi kjo q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb baba dhe edukator i gjeneratave p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat shkroi edhe historia.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, ne hasim n\u00eb Kur&#8217;an, aty ku gjendet lumturia e k\u00ebsaj bote dhe e bot\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr, q\u00eb Krijuesi p\u00ebrmend rr\u00ebfime edukative t\u00eb dobishme, sikurse porosia e t\u00eb urtit Lukman p\u00ebr t\u00eb birin e tij<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a>. K\u00ebto porosi Zoti ia zbriti Pejgamberit Muhamed sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem q\u00eb t\u00eb mbetet m\u00ebsim p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzimin, se si dhe me \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u2019i edukojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Agjenda e Islamit n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr mekanizmat m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb q\u00eb Islami p\u00ebrdor n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb ngarkimi i prind\u00ebrve me p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb karshi f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebt\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm e p\u00ebrdor duke instaluar tek besimtari n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve edhe k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimin, t\u00ebrheqjen e v\u00ebrejtjes me d\u00ebnim, q\u00eb shpeshher\u00eb e hasim n\u00eb Islam. Kjo ndodh n\u00eb rast se njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb i pakujdessh\u00ebm duke shprehur mosinteresim apo duke e anashkaluar detyr\u00ebn e shenjt\u00eb karshi f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebt\u00eb mund ta v\u00ebrejm\u00eb n\u00eb citatin kur&#8217;anor, ku Krijuesi n\u00eb t\u00eb vetmin vend n\u00eb Kur&#8217;an na urdh\u00ebron q\u00eb ta ruajm\u00eb familjen dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Metoda kryesore e ruajtjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb edukimi.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>&#8220;O ju q\u00eb besuat, ruani veten dhe familjen tuaj prej zjarrit, l\u00ebnda djeg\u00ebse e t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit dhe gur\u00ebt.&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I D\u00ebrguari i Zoti thot\u00eb: \u201cNjeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb bari n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e vet dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes s\u00eb vet&#8230;\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Pas instalimit t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb duke shpalosur edhe r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e saj, n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nd\u00ebrmerren edhe hapat e nevojsh\u00ebm praktik\u00eb gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebtimit ton\u00eb edukues.<\/p>\n<p>Disa hapa praktik\u00eb se si fillon edukimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Kujdesi gjat\u00eb zgjedhjes s\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortes.<\/li>\n<li>Lutjet e vazhdueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur f\u00ebmij\u00eb bujar\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>Shmangia nga mallkimi i tyre.<\/li>\n<li>Em\u00ebrtimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me emra t\u00eb bukur.<\/li>\n<li>Skalitja e besimit t\u00eb drejt\u00eb n\u00eb zemrat e tyre.<\/li>\n<li>Mbjellja e virtyteve t\u00eb mira tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<li>Mbjellja e urrejtjes ndaj veseve t\u00eb k\u00ebqija.<\/li>\n<li>P\u00ebrdorimi i shprehjeve t\u00eb mira me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<li>Formimi i shembujve e modeleve te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<li>Ndihma p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb personalitet qysh n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri.<\/li>\n<li>Shmangja nga sjelljet kontradiktore.<\/li>\n<li>P\u00ebrmbushja e premtimeve.<\/li>\n<li>Mbajtja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve larg pamjeve pornografike dhe erotike.<\/li>\n<li>Pastrimi i sht\u00ebpis\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat e ndyra dhe t\u00eb rrezikshme.<\/li>\n<li>Ngritja e vet\u00ebdijes n\u00eb mir\u00ebmbajtjen e past\u00ebrtis\u00eb n\u00eb veten dhe ambientin ku jeton.<\/li>\n<li>Dh\u00ebnia e m\u00ebsimeve fetare e edukative qysh n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri.<\/li>\n<li>Edukimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb serioz dhe preciz n\u00eb pun\u00ebt q\u00eb u jepen.<\/li>\n<li>Motivimi p\u00ebr lexim.<\/li>\n<li>Stimulimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm n\u00eb shkollim.<\/li>\n<li>Zhvillimi i vet\u00ebbesimit te f\u00ebmija.<\/li>\n<li>K\u00ebshillimi me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<li>B\u00ebrja shprehi e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>B\u00ebrja shprehi e angazhimit shoq\u00ebror.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00ebsimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb vendime.<\/li>\n<li>Respektimi i fazave t\u00eb zhvillimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/li>\n<li>P\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimi momental i mang\u00ebsive.<\/li>\n<li>Drejt\u00ebsia ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/li>\n<li>Ndarja e koh\u00ebs p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<li>D\u00ebgjimi kur ata flasin dhe nxitja p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur.<\/li>\n<li>Mbik\u00ebqyrja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs &#8220;nga distanca&#8221;.<\/li>\n<li>Pritja dhe gostitja e shok\u00ebve apo shoqeve t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/li>\n<li>Moszmadhimi i gabimeve q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<li>Bashk\u00ebpunimi i prind\u00ebrve n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/li>\n<li>Baza e edukimit \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptimi mes bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebve.<\/li>\n<li>P\u00ebrzgjedhja e shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme.<\/li>\n<li>Zbulimi i talentit tek f\u00ebmija.<\/li>\n<li>Organizimi i sh\u00ebtitjeve, kuizeve, garave me f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>Prania e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb takime serioze, takime familjare, universitet, xhami etj.<\/li>\n<li>Marrja parasysh e faz\u00ebs s\u00eb pubertetit dhe trajtimi i k\u00ebsaj faze me kujdes t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>Ndihma ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebr t&#8217;i orientuar n\u00eb studimet e tyre.<\/li>\n<li>Krijimi i nj\u00eb lidhshm\u00ebrie shoq\u00ebrore mes prindit dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/li>\n<li>K\u00ebshillimi me ekspert\u00eb t\u00eb edukimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/li>\n<li>Leximi i literatur\u00ebs s\u00eb dobishme p\u00ebr edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebta jan\u00eb disa nga hapat q\u00eb Islami na k\u00ebshillon gjat\u00eb udh\u00ebtimit ton\u00eb n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, edhe pse ky udh\u00ebtim vazhdon dhe ne mbetemi gjithmon\u00eb prind\u00ebr, me ndjenj\u00ebn se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt sado q\u00eb t\u00eb rriten, kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebshilla prind\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Islami i jep \u00e7do prindi edhe nj\u00eb udh\u00ebzim dhe fanar tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb do t\u2019i ndihmoj\u00eb gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtij udh\u00ebtimi t\u00eb lodhsh\u00ebm por n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndsh\u00ebm. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebdija p\u00ebr vler\u00ebn e edukimit dhe shp\u00ebrblimin n\u00eb t\u00eb dyja bot\u00ebt. Kjo vet\u00ebdije i ndihmon prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb duruesh\u00ebm e t\u00eb q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e tyre edukative. K\u00ebshtu, \u00e7do mund dhe p\u00ebrpjekje e prind\u00ebrve sigurisht q\u00eb do shp\u00ebrblehet me shp\u00ebrblimin e duhur.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Fjal\u00ebt e fundit p\u00ebr edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Thuhet se gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb thjeshtat. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb detyra e t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve ne q\u00eb jemi t\u00eb angazhuar n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht e thjesht\u00eb, n\u00ebse dim\u00eb ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Jemi t\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb duhet b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe t\u2019i ruhemi asaj q\u00eb nuk duhet b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Islami \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00ebri nd\u00ebr faktor\u00ebt kryesor\u00eb q\u00eb ndihmon n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, n\u00ebse ne dim\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojm\u00eb nga agjenda q\u00eb na ofron.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rashit Zylfiu <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Referencat e konsultuara<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Gabimet e rrezikshme n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, Muhamed Ibrahim Elhamed.<\/li>\n<li>P\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia n\u00eb edukim, Muhamed Elhamed.<\/li>\n<li>Edukimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb Islam, Nasir Ulvan.<\/li>\n<li>Si t\u2019i edukojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, punim.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.islamgjakova.net\">islamgjakova.net<\/a><\/li>\n<li><u> <\/u><u>femijetislam.com<\/u><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Shih Kur&#8217;anin Fisnik, sure Lukman.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Kur&#8217;an, Tahrim: 6.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Pjes\u00eb e hadithit profetik. Sh\u00ebnon Imam Buhariu, nr. 585.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Islami dhe edukimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve Edukimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve gjithmon\u00eb ka paraqitur fush\u00ebn n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn \u00e7do individ ka d\u00ebshiruar t\u00eb spikatet e t\u00eb d\u00ebshmohet. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nga njeriu i par\u00eb e gjer m\u00eb sot, p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb baballar\u00ebt dhe n\u00ebnat, pa marr\u00eb parasysh nivelin e arsimimit, karakteristik\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekja q\u00eb pasardh\u00ebsve t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb dashur [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":848,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,2,22],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-847","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-artikuj","8":"category-e-zgjedhur","9":"category-shkrime-autoriale"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/847","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=847"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/847\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":849,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/847\/revisions\/849"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/848"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=847"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=847"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=847"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}