{"id":869,"date":"2019-07-26T08:03:22","date_gmt":"2019-07-26T08:03:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=869"},"modified":"2019-07-26T08:03:22","modified_gmt":"2019-07-26T08:03:22","slug":"2-sfida-e-mungeses-se-vetebesimit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/07\/26\/2-sfida-e-mungeses-se-vetebesimit\/","title":{"rendered":"2. SFIDA E MUNGES\u00cbS S\u00cb VET\u00cbBESIMIT"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cBesimtari i fort\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i mir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb i dashur tek Allahu sesa<br \/>\nbesimtari i dob\u00ebt dhe te t\u00eb dy ka hair.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\"><strong>[1]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Pas besimit n\u00eb Krijuesin e gjith\u00ebsis\u00eb, si litari m\u00eb i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u ballafaquar me problemet dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e jet\u00ebs, forca kryesore ku mb\u00ebshtetet njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimi i tij. Sa m\u00eb i fort\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb ky besim n\u00eb shkatht\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe aft\u00ebsit\u00eb personale, aq m\u00eb i fort\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe produktiviteti n\u00eb jet\u00eb. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb zbehet e dob\u00ebsohet vet\u00ebbesimi, njeriu do t\u00eb fundoset n\u00eb uj\u00ebrat e k\u00ebsaj dynjaje.<\/p>\n<p>Ti ndoshta mund t\u00eb jesh pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb familjeje e cila i n\u00ebnvler\u00ebson aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tua, q\u00eb ka mbjell\u00eb te ti frik\u00ebn se ti nuk mund t\u2019i b\u00ebsh gj\u00ebrat vet\u00eb dhe kjo t\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb mendosh se d\u00ebshtimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i pandash\u00ebm dhe prandaj e gjen veten \u00e7do her\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr.<\/p>\n<p>Njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb zot\u00ebri i madh n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjith\u00ebsi, por n\u00eb momentet q\u00eb mbjell d\u00ebshtimin te vetja e tij, ai do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet si penda n\u00eb er\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>I dashuri yn\u00eb, paqja dhe bekimi i Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, ka ndaluar q\u00eb njeriu ta p\u00ebrbuz\u00eb vetveten.<\/p>\n<p>Halid bin Velidi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin shkroi historia. Pejgamberi, paqja dhe bekimet e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, e lajm\u00ebroi duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb se \u201cti je shpata e Allahut n\u00eb tok\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Bilal bin Rebiah morri guximin p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb muezini i par\u00eb n\u00eb rruzullin tok\u00ebsor edhe pse kurr\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb nuk kishte d\u00ebgjuar e as shqiptuar ezanin, por i mjaftoi q\u00eb Pejgamberi i Zotit e lavd\u00ebroi z\u00ebrin e tij.<\/p>\n<p>Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e suksesshme q\u00eb mbjell nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimi. Sot bota moderne e mbjell k\u00ebt\u00eb vet\u00ebbesim te popujt e tyre.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb Amerik\u00eb u thon\u00eb <em>\u201cju jeni t\u00eb par\u00ebt n\u00eb bot\u00eb\u201d,<\/em> kurse n\u00eb Britani u thon\u00eb <em>\u201cju jeni pasardh\u00ebsit e perandor\u00ebve\u201d<\/em>. N\u00eb Turqi u thuhet se \u201c<em>ju jeni pasardh\u00ebsit e perandoris\u00eb q\u00eb ka sunduar gjysm\u00ebn e bot\u00ebs\u201d. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Presidenti turk Rexhep Tajib Erdogan i thot\u00eb popullit t\u00eb tij: <em>\u201cGjyshi yn\u00eb Sulltan Fatihu b\u00ebri q\u00eb anijet t\u00eb lundrojn\u00eb pa uj\u00eb, kurse ne b\u00ebm\u00eb q\u00eb metroja t\u00eb ec\u00eb n\u00ebn det.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n<p>I gjith\u00eb ky investim b\u00ebhet p\u00ebr t\u2019i treguar popullit se suksesi dhe progresi n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb duart tuaja.<\/p>\n<p>Ashtu duhet t\u00eb jesh edhe ti. Mos lejo q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb luhatet besimi n\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tua. Mundohu q\u00eb t\u2019i mbash sa m\u00eb vitale duke u mb\u00ebshtetur te Zoti. Mb\u00ebshtetu te krijuesi yt, Allahu i Madh\u00ebrish\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mungesa e vet\u00ebbesimit?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Sfida e munges\u00ebs s\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr sfidat e rrezikshme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e njeriut sepse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kalojm\u00eb p\u00ebrmes saj, nuk ka njeri q\u00eb i shp\u00ebton k\u00ebsaj sfide.<\/p>\n<p>Mungesa e vet\u00ebbesimit \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti kur njeriu dyshon n\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e veta p\u00ebr t\u2019u ballafaquar me problemet dhe sfidat e jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Ky dyshim b\u00ebn q\u00eb njeriu ose t\u00eb fundoset p\u00ebrball\u00eb k\u00ebsaj vale dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb i t\u00ebrhequr p\u00ebrball\u00eb problemeve t\u00eb jet\u00ebs ose do t\u00eb mbledh\u00eb energji e vet\u00ebbesim p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Pse ekziston kjo sfid\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Kjo sfid\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb na treguar se ne kemi aft\u00ebsi, energji dhe mund t\u2019i b\u00ebjm\u00eb gj\u00ebrat bukur. Pa vet\u00ebbesim ne nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballemi me stuhit\u00eb e jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>D\u00ebmet dhe pasojat e munges\u00ebs s\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimit<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Nuk ka dyshim se mungesa e vet\u00ebbesimit na sjell pasoja dhe d\u00ebme n\u00eb jet\u00eb sepse vendimet e saj varen nga kjo energji, se a ekziston te ne apo jo.<\/p>\n<p>Ja pasojat e munges\u00ebs s\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimit:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Lind dyshimi n\u00eb besimin e Allahut, njeriu madje arrin deri aty sa t\u00eb pyes\u00eb Zotin:-Pse m\u00eb krijove t\u00eb till\u00eb?!<\/li>\n<li>Dyshojm\u00eb n\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe shkatht\u00ebsit\u00eb tona.<\/li>\n<li>N\u00ebnshkruajm\u00eb kapitullimin me dor\u00ebn ton\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>Ikim nga marrja e vendimeve n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>B\u00ebhemi pjes\u00eb e problemit, jo ata q\u00eb e zgjidhim problemin.<\/li>\n<li>Jemi t\u00eb paaft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur at\u00eb q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebrbrenda.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Si t\u00eb mbjellim vet\u00ebbesimin te vetja dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Mendimi i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr Allahun. <\/strong>Ejubi alejhi selam e duroi shum\u00eb s\u00ebmundjen, Merjemja pati guximin t\u00eb dilte me foshnj\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb, Ibrahimi (alejhi selam) nuk u tremb nga zjarri, nd\u00ebrsa Pejgamberi yn\u00eb alejhi selamnuk u m\u00ebrzit n\u00eb shpell\u00eb sepse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kishin mendim t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr Allahun. Vet\u00ebbesimi \u00e7do her\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i lidhur me Allahun sepse Ai nuk na braktis kurr\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Allahu n\u00eb Kur\u2019an na tregon se shpeshher\u00eb njeriu ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr vet\u00ebbesimin n\u00eb momente t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij. <\/strong>Kur ndodhi lufta e Uhudit dhe u vran\u00eb shtat\u00ebdhjet\u00eb haf\u00ebz\u00eb t\u00eb Kur\u2019anit, ishte v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb tronditje e madhe p\u00ebr shok\u00ebt e Pejgamberit Muhamed(paqja dhe bekimet e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb). M\u00eb pas u shpall\u00ebn ajetet kur\u2019anore:<br \/>\n<strong><em>\u201cE mos u dob\u00ebsoni (fizikisht) dhe mos u d\u00ebshp\u00ebroni (shpirt\u00ebrisht) derisa ju jeni m\u00eb t\u00eb lartit, po qe se jeni besimtar\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb&#8230;\u201d <\/em><\/strong>(Al\u2019Imran: 140)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Pejgamberi (alejhi selam)<\/strong>nuk lejonte q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb mbillte te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt frik\u00eb dhe gj\u00ebra t\u00eb k\u00ebqija. Ai ishte shum\u00eb i kujdessh\u00ebm q\u00eb \u00e7do her\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e k\u00ebqija t\u2019i largonte nga jeta e njer\u00ebzve.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ai shkonte deri aty sa n\u00ebse dikush kishte em\u00ebr me kuptim jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb, i propozonte q\u00eb ta ndryshonte p\u00ebr mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>P\u00ebrcaktimi i shkaqeve t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimit<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Psikolog\u00ebt p\u00ebrmendin se ekzistojn\u00eb pes\u00eb shkaqe q\u00eb sjellin munges\u00ebn e vet\u00ebbesimit.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Shkaqe trupore (fizionomia e njeriut)<\/li>\n<li>Sociale<\/li>\n<li>Financiare<\/li>\n<li>Morale (sjellja)<\/li>\n<li>D\u00ebshtimi paraprak.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Besimtari duhet t\u2019i lutet Allahut me emrin <em>Es-Samed<\/em>, q\u00eb ka kuptimin se t\u00eb gjitha krijesat kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr T\u00eb dhe kthehen tek Ai. N\u00eb momentet q\u00eb gjendesh p\u00ebrball\u00eb sfid\u00ebs s\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimit apo ndien se nuk ke vet\u00ebbesim, mb\u00ebshtetju Allahut.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><u>Lutja p\u00ebrmbyll\u00ebse<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Zoti im, mos lejo q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb na tretet vet\u00ebbesimi. Na dhuro forc\u00eb e guxim at\u00ebher\u00eb kur na mungon. Zot, na ruaj imanin, forc\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb q\u00eb posedojm\u00eb, e prej saj fitojm\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimin n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb sfidave t\u00eb saj!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a>Sh\u00ebnon Muslimi.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n<p>Burimi: Libri &#8220;10 Sfidat e jet\u00ebs&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cBesimtari i fort\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i mir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb i dashur tek Allahu sesa besimtari i dob\u00ebt dhe te t\u00eb dy ka hair.\u201d[1] Pas besimit n\u00eb Krijuesin e gjith\u00ebsis\u00eb, si litari m\u00eb i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u ballafaquar me problemet dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e jet\u00ebs, forca kryesore ku mb\u00ebshtetet njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimi i tij. 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