T\u00eb nderuar v\u00ebllez\u00ebr, shpresoj se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rrug\u00ebtim s\u00eb bashku me ju do t\u00eb ndajm\u00eb dhe kujtojm\u00eb disa \u00e7aste nga jeta e t\u00eb dashurit ton\u00eb, Muhamedit sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem. Do t\u00eb jemi m\u00eb af\u00ebr tij, p\u00ebr ta njohur m\u00eb mir\u00eb moralin e tij. Shpresoj se ky rrug\u00ebtim do t\u00eb na mund\u00ebsoj\u00eb t\u00eb stolisemi me moralin e tij e m\u00eb pas t\u00eb jemi shembull p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
A e ke imagjinuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00ebndrimin t\u00ebnd af\u00ebr Pejgamberit sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem n\u00eb xhenet? N\u00ebse e d\u00ebshiron k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00ebndro me ne p\u00ebr pak minuta dhe do t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn q\u00eb ta mund\u00ebson at\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Fillimisht dua t\u2019ju pyes: Si ka mund\u00ebsi ai q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pran\u00eb detit q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb uj\u00eb n\u00eb shkret\u00ebtir\u00eb? A \u00ebsht\u00eb e logjikshme q\u00eb n\u00ebse ke trash\u00ebguar nj\u00eb thesar me florinj, t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh dhe t’ua shtrish dor\u00ebn t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve?<\/p>\n
Pyetje t\u00eb tilla na shtyjn\u00eb t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb se si kemi mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb flasim p\u00ebr moralin e mos t\u00eb marrim si shembull at\u00eb q\u00eb i m\u00ebsoi njer\u00ebzimit artin e etik\u00ebs, i m\u00ebsoi se \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb morali, ngase ai v\u00ebrtet ishte n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb moralit. Muhamedi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyr\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzimin.<\/p>\n
Kur flasim p\u00ebr moralin duhet t\u00eb marrim si shembull Muhamedin sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem, i cili erdhi me mesazhin m\u00eb madh\u00ebshtor dhe me t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm n\u00eb historin\u00eb e njer\u00ebzimit. “Erdha p\u00ebr t’i p\u00ebrsosur virtytet e larta”<\/em>, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb ai. Erdhi t’i sjell\u00eb njer\u00ebzimit \u00e7el\u00ebsin e suksesit t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Ai ishte m\u00ebshir\u00eb, dhunti, shp\u00ebtues i njer\u00ebzimit nga err\u00ebsira n\u00eb drit\u00eb dhe nga vuajtja n\u00eb lumturi.<\/p>\n Allahu thot\u00eb: “Ne t\u00eb d\u00ebrguam ty (Muhamed) vet\u00ebm si m\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha krijesat.”<\/em><\/strong>[2]<\/a><\/p>\n Ti v\u00ebrtet do t\u00eb jesh m\u00ebshir\u00eb ngase je i D\u00ebrguar i Allahut. P\u00ebrgatitjet e tij u b\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb nga fillimi sepse do t\u00eb vij\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00eb, shembull praktik p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn, p\u00ebr ta nxjerr\u00eb at\u00eb nga rob\u00ebria, vuajtja, n\u00ebn\u00e7mimi, drejt krenaris\u00eb dhe adhurimit t\u00eb Allahut t\u00eb Madh\u00ebruar.<\/p>\n Mesazhin e vet e p\u00ebrmbledh se erdhi p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur virtytet e larta. Muhamedi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem shprehet: “Jam d\u00ebrguar p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur virtytet e larta.” <\/em>N\u00eb nj\u00eb transmetim \u201cp\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur moralin\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n Ai ishte shembulli m\u00eb i mir\u00eb praktik p\u00ebr moralin edhe n\u00eb raport me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, prandaj Allahu e lavd\u00ebroi n\u00eb Kuran: “V\u00ebrtet, ti je n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb moralit!”[3]<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar i lajm\u00ebron besimtar\u00ebt p\u00ebr dhuntin\u00eb q\u00eb u solli me fjal\u00ebn: “Juve ju erdhi i D\u00ebrguar nga lloji juaj, atij i vjen r\u00ebnd\u00eb p\u00ebr vuajtjet tuaja sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb lakmues i rrug\u00ebs s\u00eb drejt\u00eb p\u00ebr ju, \u00ebsht\u00eb i ndjesh\u00ebm dhe i m\u00ebshirsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr besimtar\u00ebt.”[4]<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Muhamedi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem ishte shembulli praktik se si duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb besimtari. Shok\u00ebt e tij u edukuan nga duar e tij dhe sh\u00ebrbyen si sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe p\u00ebr at\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ua hap\u00ebn zemrat para se t’ua hapin dyert e sht\u00ebpive.<\/p>\n Ky moral dhe kjo sjellje q\u00eb mor\u00ebn nga i dashuri Muhamed sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem ishte shkaku kryesor i p\u00ebrhapjes s\u00eb Islamit me nj\u00eb hov dhe shpejt\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha an\u00ebt e bot\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Muhamedi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem jetoi n\u00eb mesin e armiqve idhujtar\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjysm\u00eb shekulli dhe m\u00eb pas e plot\u00ebsoi jet\u00ebn e tij af\u00ebr \u00e7ifut\u00ebve dhe hipokrit\u00ebve, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk pat\u00ebn mund\u00ebsi asnj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb ndonj\u00eb v\u00ebrejtje n\u00eb moralin dhe sjelljen e tij. Ata shpenzuan pasuri dhe mund, derdh\u00ebn gjak n\u00eb luft\u00eb kund\u00ebr tij, por nuk ia arrit\u00ebn dot q\u00ebllimit.<\/p>\n Jeta e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj dallon nga ajo e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb r\u00ebndomt\u00eb, por askush nga ata q\u00eb njohu historia nuk pranuan q\u00eb grat\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb di\u00e7ka nga jeta e tyre bashk\u00ebshortore, madje jeta bashk\u00ebshortore njihej si di\u00e7ka sekrete dhe kush zbulonte di\u00e7ka prej saj, nd\u00ebshkohej. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit k\u00ebshtu jan\u00eb, nuk pranojn\u00eb t\u00eb zbulojn\u00eb di\u00e7ka nga jeta e tyre private, sidomos ajo bashk\u00ebshortore.<\/p>\n Muhamedi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem nuk u mjaftua me p\u00eblqimin, por urdh\u00ebroi q\u00eb t\u00eb transmetohej \u00e7do gj\u00eb nga jeta e tij. Grat\u00eb e tij kan\u00eb treguar \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb pan\u00eb tek ai, madje edhe shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra private, p\u00ebr shembull si lahej me grat\u00eb e tij, si sillej me to etj., duke b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb musliman\u00ebt t\u00eb m\u00ebsonin p\u00ebr Muhamedin m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e tyre, me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jetonin.<\/p>\n Muhamedi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem jetoi mes shok\u00ebve t\u00eb tij, u martua me disa gra dhe urdh\u00ebroi q\u00eb kush ishte i pranish\u00ebm t\u2019ua p\u00ebrcillte atyre q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb: \u201cKumtoni nga un\u00eb edhe n\u00eb qoft\u00eb nj\u00eb ajet”. <\/strong>Nuk udh\u00ebtoi vet\u00ebm kurr\u00eb, as nuk u izolua ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb prej njer\u00ebzve, shok\u00ebt e tij transmetuan \u00e7do gj\u00eb nga ai, saq\u00eb disave prej tyre nuk u interesonte ndonj\u00eb pun\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7 p\u00ebrcjelljes s\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb Muhamedit sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem.<\/p>\n Ata kan\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruar se si q\u00ebndronte n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb, ulur, si flinte, pozicionin si q\u00ebndronte n\u00eb shtrat, si qeshte, buz\u00ebqeshjen e tij, si lahej, si merrte abdest, si hante, si pinte, cilat ushqime preferonte, p\u00ebrshkruan trupin e tij t\u00eb past\u00ebr sikur t\u00eb ishim duke e par\u00eb tani, madje p\u00ebrmend\u00ebn edhe numrin e thinjave n\u00eb kok\u00eb dhe mjek\u00ebr.<\/p>\n T\u00eb nderuar v\u00ebllez\u00ebr e motra! <\/strong><\/p>\n I gjith\u00eb ky mund dhe kjo sakt\u00ebsi u b\u00eb me t\u00eb vetmin q\u00ebllim: q\u00eb t\u00eb mos marrim si shembull ask\u00ebnd tjet\u00ebr pos tij. P\u00ebr ket\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrmend\u00ebm kan\u00eb d\u00ebshmuar edhe miqt\u00eb edhe armiqt\u00eb e tij. D\u00ebshmia dhe l\u00ebvdata m\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i dha Allahu aze ue xhel, ngase Allahu e p\u00ebrgatiti p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb Pejgamber i Tij. Allahu thot\u00eb n\u00eb Kuran: \u00a0“Ju e kishit shembullin m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin e Allahut, kuptohet, ai q\u00eb shpreson n\u00eb shp\u00ebrblimin e Allahut n\u00eb bot\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, ai q\u00eb at\u00eb shpres\u00eb e shoq\u00ebron duke e p\u00ebrmendur shum\u00eb shpesh Allahun.”[5]<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n “V\u00ebrtet, ti je n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb moralit!<\/em><\/strong>“[6]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Gruaja e tij, Aishja, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej saj, kur u pyet se cili ishte morali i Pejgamberit sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem tha: “Morali i tij ka qen\u00eb Kurani.”<\/p>\n Shoku i tij Enesi, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, thot\u00eb: “Kam qen\u00eb sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor i Pejgamberit sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem p\u00ebr 10 vite dhe nuk m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb of kurr\u00eb, as p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn q\u00eb e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb pse e b\u00ebre, as p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb e kam l\u00ebn\u00eb pse e le pa e b\u00ebr\u00eb.”<\/p>\n N\u00eb koh\u00ebn e rind\u00ebrtimit t\u00eb Qabes\u00eb, fisi kurejshit, fisi i Muhamedit sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem, pati mospajtime se kush do t\u00eb vendoste Gurin e Zi. Debatet u rrit\u00ebn aq shum\u00eb, saq\u00eb p\u00ebr pak sa nuk plasi lufta. N\u00eb fund u pajtuan se kush do t\u00eb hynte i pari nga dera e Qabes\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte ai q\u00eb do t\u00eb vendoste gurin. N\u00eb at\u00eb moment hyri Muhamedi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb brohorit\u00ebn “El Emin!”, besniku. Pasi ran\u00eb dakord se Muhamedi ishte njeriu i duhur, ai propozoi q\u00eb t\u00eb merrej nj\u00eb p\u00eblhur\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vendosej Guri i Zi n\u00eb t\u00eb dhe nga nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsues prej \u00e7do fisi ta kapte p\u00eblhur\u00ebn e ta d\u00ebrgonin gurin n\u00eb vendin e tij, ku Muhamedi do ta vendoste n\u00eb murin e Qabes\u00eb.<\/p>\n Nj\u00eb ngjarje tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo e takimit t\u00eb Herakliut me Ebu Sufjanin. Herakliu ishte i interesuar t\u00eb merrte informata p\u00ebr Pejgamberin sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem. Nj\u00ebra prej pyetjeve q\u00eb i parashtroi Ebu Sufjanit ishte: \u201cA ju ka g\u00ebnjyer ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb?\u201d Ebu Sufjani tha jo. “A ju ka tradhtuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb?\u201d, ishte pyetja e radh\u00ebs. Ebu Sufjani i tha prap\u00eb jo. Herakliu i tha: \u201cT\u00eb pyeta a ju ka g\u00ebnjyer ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, m’u p\u00ebrgjigje jo. Si ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb mos ju g\u00ebnjej\u00eb p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra tok\u00ebsore e t\u2019ju g\u00ebnjej\u00eb p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra qiellore?!\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Disa th\u00ebnie nga thesari i Muhamedit sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem<\/strong><\/p>\n Dy gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk duhet t’i ket\u00eb muslimani- Pejgamberi sal-lAllahu alejhi ue sel-lem thot\u00eb: “Dy ve\u00e7ori nuk i takojn\u00eb besimtarit: morali i keq dhe koprracia.\u201d<\/p>\n Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n [1]<\/a> Kuran, Kalem: 4.<\/p>\n [2]<\/a> Kuran, El Enbija: 107.<\/p>\n [3]<\/a> Kuran, Kalem: 4.<\/p>\n [4]<\/a> Kuran, Teube: 128.<\/p>\n\n