{"id":906,"date":"2019-08-25T10:33:40","date_gmt":"2019-08-25T10:33:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=906"},"modified":"2019-08-25T10:33:40","modified_gmt":"2019-08-25T10:33:40","slug":"3-sfida-e-terheqjes-ne-jete","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/08\/25\/3-sfida-e-terheqjes-ne-jete\/","title":{"rendered":"3. SFIDA E T\u00cbRHEQJES N\u00cb JET\u00cb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>SFIDA E T\u00cbRHEQJES N\u00cb JET\u00cb<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cP<\/em><em>\u00ebrqendrohu vendosm\u00ebrisht ashtu si je i urdh\u00ebruar.\u201d<\/em> (Hud: 112)<\/p>\n<p>Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e shtrenjt\u00eb q\u00eb posedon njeriu, pasuria m\u00eb e madhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb jan\u00eb vlerat, morali n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin \u00ebsht\u00eb edukuar dhe fisnik\u00ebruar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7donj\u00ebri nga ne d\u00ebshiron t\u2019i p\u00ebrmbush\u00eb \u00ebndrrat e tij n\u00eb jet\u00eb. E r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb kur k\u00ebto k\u00ebrkesa b\u00ebhen duke ruajtur krenarin\u00eb, dinjitetin dhe vlerat e tona, duke mos dashur q\u00eb t\u00eb heqim dor\u00eb prej tyre p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb \u00e7mim. Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb e till\u00eb q\u00eb nganj\u00ebher\u00eb njeriu p\u00ebrballet me provime q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb nga ai t\u00eb heq\u00eb dor\u00eb nga k\u00ebto vlera.<\/p>\n<p>Nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi n\u00eb dit\u00ebn e provimit p\u00ebrballet me harres\u00ebn e p\u00ebrgjigjes dhe ka p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb: a t\u00eb l\u00ebr\u00eb provimin apo t\u00eb kopjoj\u00eb?<\/p>\n<p>Dikush n\u00eb vendin e pun\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb vonuar, ka munguar n\u00eb pun\u00eb pa arsye dhe kur pyetet apo rrezikohet p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrz\u00ebn\u00eb nga puna \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb sfid\u00ebs a t\u00eb g\u00ebnjej\u00eb apo t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, edhe n\u00ebse i kushton shtrenjt\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Kujtdo q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb vonuar martesa p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebrballet me provimin mes asaj q\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb me nder ashtu si\u00e7 e ka edukuar familja dhe e do Zoti apo t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb rrug\u00ebt e haramit.<\/p>\n<p>Kujtdo q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb vonuar furnizimi dhe p\u00ebr momentin nuk mund t\u2019i realizoj\u00eb \u00ebndrrat, d\u00ebshirat e tij jan\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb sfid\u00ebs a t\u00eb duroj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb me ndershm\u00ebri apo t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb rrug\u00ebt e ndaluara p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfituar pasuri, ose t\u00eb trokas\u00eb n\u00eb dyert e bankave p\u00ebr t\u2019u zhytur n\u00eb kamat\u00eb.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Shembuj q\u00eb nuk harrohen<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Pejgamberi (sal-lAllahu alejhi ve sel-lem) u p\u00ebrball shpesh n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij me sfid\u00ebn e negocimit t\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfitime materiale. Shembuj t\u00eb till\u00eb t\u00eb paharruar kemi shum\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij.<\/p>\n<p>Atij iu ofrua pasuri, martes\u00eb dhe pozit\u00eb vet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqej nga thirrja hyjnore, por p\u00ebrgjigjja e tij ishte e leht\u00eb: \u201cSikur Dielli t\u00eb m\u00eb vendoset n\u00eb an\u00ebn e djatht\u00eb dhe H\u00ebna n\u00eb an\u00ebn e majt\u00eb, nuk do t\u00eb heq dor\u00eb nga rruga e Zotit tim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dit\u00ebn kur iu ofrua mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb kompromis q\u00eb mushrik\u00ebt nj\u00eb vit t\u00eb adhuronin Allahun, nd\u00ebrsa musliman\u00ebt t\u00eb adhuronin zotat e rrejsh\u00ebm, p\u00ebrgjigjja ishte shum\u00eb e qart\u00eb: \u201cO ju mohues, ne nuk do t\u00eb adhurojm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb adhuroni ju e as ju nuk do t\u00eb adhuroni At\u00eb q\u00eb adhurojm\u00eb ne.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bilali, muezini i par\u00eb i Pejgamberit ton\u00eb, mban mbi gjoks gur\u00eb, i kthyer nga rrezet p\u00ebrv\u00ebluese t\u00eb shkret\u00ebtir\u00ebs dhe nuk t\u00ebrhiqet nga parimet, bindja dhe besimi i tij.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb sfida e heqjes dor\u00eb?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr sfidat e v\u00ebshtira kur njeriu gjendet p\u00ebrball\u00eb dallg\u00ebve t\u00eb jet\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb ruajtur vlerat, moralin, besimin, parimet e tij apo p\u00ebr t\u2019i shitur ato me \u00e7mimin e epshit, t\u00eb egos dhe gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb ul\u00ebta t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj dynjaje kalimtare.<\/p>\n<p>Me k\u00ebt\u00eb sfid\u00eb p\u00ebrballemi edhe kur heqim dor\u00eb nga ajo q\u00eb kemi t\u00eb drejt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ruajtur interesin m\u00eb madhor t\u00eb familjes, shoq\u00ebris\u00eb apo p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur\u00a0 paqe mes njer\u00ebzve.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Pse ekziston kjo sfid\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Kjo sfid\u00eb nxjerr n\u00eb shesh \u00e7mimin e lart\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb vlerat tona, imani, parimet, identiteti yn\u00eb. Kjo sfid\u00eb tregon forc\u00ebn e imanit t\u00ebnd. Aq sa litari \u00ebsht\u00eb i fort\u00eb, aq do t\u00eb ket\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb r\u00ebnda.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>D\u00ebmet dhe pasojat n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Kjo sfid\u00eb tregon dob\u00ebsin\u00eb ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Njeriu mbetet pa identitet kur d\u00ebshton n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb provim.<\/li>\n<li>Humb t\u00eb dyja bot\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<li>Njeriu humb besimin te njer\u00ebzit, kalon n\u00eb shkall\u00ebn e hipokritit.<\/li>\n<li>Shet vlerat p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7mim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Dobit\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>E ndihmon njeriun n\u00eb ruajtjen e identitetit t\u00eb vet.<\/li>\n<li>Tregon vler\u00ebn e njeriut dhe \u00e7mimin e tij.<\/li>\n<li>Lumturia e jet\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb ruajtjen e parimeve dhe vlerave njer\u00ebzore e jo n\u00eb shitjen e tyre.<\/li>\n<li>Njeriu me kalimin e k\u00ebsaj sfide arrin k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe shp\u00ebrblimin e Zotit.<\/li>\n<li>Muslimanin e kalit\u00eb dhe e b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb n\u00eb parimet e veta.<\/li>\n<li>Njeriu kupton dhe dallon t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn prej t\u00eb pav\u00ebrtet\u00ebs.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Si t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb n\u00eb momentet kur na k\u00ebrkohet t\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqemi nga vlerat tona?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Jusufi a.s. \u00ebsht\u00eb sfiduar me k\u00ebt\u00eb sfid\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebn kur refuzoi t\u00eb bjer\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebkatin e sh\u00ebmtuar ku u ftua. Me gjith\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimet q\u00eb iu b\u00ebn\u00eb dhe gjendjes s\u00eb dob\u00ebt t\u00eb tij, ai nuk ra pre e presioneve dhe nuk hoqi dor\u00eb nga vlerat e tij.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu na tregon p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shembull n\u00eb Kur\u2019an:<br \/>\n<strong><em>\u201cP\u00ebrnj\u00ebmend desha ta mashtroj, por ai kund\u00ebrshtoi. N\u00ebse nuk e b\u00ebn at\u00eb \u00e7ka i urdh\u00ebroj un\u00eb atij, pa dyshim, do t\u00eb burgoset dhe do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i posht\u00ebruar. O Zoti im, tha ai, m\u00eb tep\u00ebr e d\u00ebshiroj burgun sesa at\u00eb ku m\u00eb shpien ato!\u201d<\/em><\/strong>(Jusuf: 32-33) Kur ne sfidohemi nga ky provim i jet\u00ebs, at\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb gjendemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb tri alternativave:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Heqja dor\u00eb nga vlerat tona p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb epshit dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsive t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj bote.<\/li>\n<li>Heqja dor\u00eb p\u00ebr interes madhor, bashkim, toleranc\u00eb, afrim, dashuri.<\/li>\n<li>Kapja p\u00ebr vlerat tona dhe mosnegocimi i tyre me \u00e7mimin e ul\u00ebt t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj bote.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><u>Lutja p\u00ebrmbyll\u00ebse<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Zoti im, bota \u00ebsht\u00eb e mbushur me provime, na dhuro forc\u00eb t\u2019i tejkalojm\u00eb ato! Mos lejo q\u00eb t\u00eb heqim dor\u00eb nga ajo q\u00eb Ti je i k\u00ebnaqur. Dhurona drit\u00eb ta shohim t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn dhe ta pasojm\u00eb at\u00eb, ta shohim t\u00eb kot\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb largohemi nga ajo!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n<p>Burimi: Libri \u201c10 Sfidat e jet\u00ebs\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>SFIDA E T\u00cbRHEQJES N\u00cb JET\u00cb \u201cP\u00ebrqendrohu vendosm\u00ebrisht ashtu si je i urdh\u00ebruar.\u201d (Hud: 112) Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e shtrenjt\u00eb q\u00eb posedon njeriu, pasuria m\u00eb e madhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb jan\u00eb vlerat, morali n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin \u00ebsht\u00eb edukuar dhe fisnik\u00ebruar. \u00c7donj\u00ebri nga ne d\u00ebshiron t\u2019i p\u00ebrmbush\u00eb \u00ebndrrat e tij n\u00eb jet\u00eb. E r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb kur k\u00ebto k\u00ebrkesa [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":907,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,2,22],"tags":[45],"class_list":{"0":"post-906","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-artikuj","8":"category-e-zgjedhur","9":"category-shkrime-autoriale","10":"tag-sfidat-e-jetes"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/906","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=906"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/906\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":908,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/906\/revisions\/908"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/907"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=906"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=906"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=906"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}