{"id":909,"date":"2019-08-25T10:38:38","date_gmt":"2019-08-25T10:38:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=909"},"modified":"2019-08-25T10:38:38","modified_gmt":"2019-08-25T10:38:38","slug":"4-sfida-e-deshperimit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/08\/25\/4-sfida-e-deshperimit\/","title":{"rendered":"4. SFIDA E D\u00cbSHP\u00cbRIMIT"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>Mos humbni shpres\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00ebn e Allahut!\u201d<\/em>(Jusuf: 87)<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7do njeri n\u00eb jet\u00eb ka d\u00ebshira dhe \u00ebndrra, t\u00eb cilat d\u00ebshiron t\u2019i realizoj\u00eb,por ekzistenca e d\u00ebshirave dhe \u00ebndrrave tona nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ato duhet t\u00eb realizohen n\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe vend t\u00eb caktuar. Ne duhet t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, se kjo bot\u00eb ka rregullat e veta dhe ato funksionojn\u00eb sipas vullnetit t\u00eb Allahut e jo sipas d\u00ebshirave dhe vullnetit ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7donj\u00ebri prej nesh ka shum\u00eb kujtime n\u00eb jet\u00eb, mes tyre edhe momente kur na ka kapluar d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi. Po t\u00eb fillojm\u00eb t\u2019i shfletojm\u00eb k\u00ebto kujtime, nuk do t\u00eb kemi mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndalemi te t\u00eb gjitha, por na mbetet k\u00ebshilla si alternativa m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i ndihmuar njer\u00ebzit.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00eb k\u00ebshilloj\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb themi q\u00eb jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0 e leht\u00eb, pa sfida, se jemi t\u00eb dob\u00ebt, jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb, nuk kemi fat,\u00ebsht\u00eb mashtrim djall\u00ebzor. Sfidat me t\u00eb cilat ballafaqohemi jan\u00eb ato p\u00ebrmes t\u00eb cilave Allahu d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb forc\u00ebn e fsheht\u00eb te ne, se gj\u00ebrat mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhen edhe ndryshe. Allahu p\u00ebrmes sfid\u00ebs n\u00eb jet\u00eb d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb ti nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb mos mendosh se sukseset n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde vijn\u00eb nga aft\u00ebsia dhe shkatht\u00ebsia jote, por nga suksesi i dhuruar nga Allahu.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu p\u00ebr ty ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:<br \/>\n<strong><em>\u201cTi b\u00ebj durim n\u00eb vendimin e Zotit t\u00ebnd, se ti je n\u00ebn mbik\u00ebqyrjen Ton\u00eb.\u201d<br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong>(Tur: 48)<\/p>\n<p>Apo do t\u00eb jesh si ata p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebt Zoti tha:<br \/>\n<strong><em>\u201c<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>E, kur Ne i japim dhunti njeriut, ai shmanget dhe largohet anash, e kur e godet e keqja \u00ebsht\u00eb i d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar.\u201d<\/em><\/strong>(Isra: 83)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>D\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi shkaktohet kur njeriu planifikon gj\u00ebra n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe i v\u00eb \u00ebndrrat e tij n\u00eb nj\u00eb drejtim duke harruar se ato mund t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb edhe n\u00eb kah tjet\u00ebr. Ai verbohet pas pasioneve t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj jete, por n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment zbulon se nuk mund t\u2019i realizoj\u00eb apo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i prir\u00eb p\u00ebr to.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi shkaktohet edhe kur dashuron di\u00e7ka \u00e7mendurisht dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment zbulon se gjith\u00e7ka ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb iluzion. D\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi ndodh gjithashtu kur mendon se problemet e tua jan\u00eb fundi i bot\u00ebs dhe ndien se je i dob\u00ebt p\u00ebrball\u00eb sfidave, i fundosur thell\u00eb, se nuk ka shpres\u00eb p\u00ebr shp\u00ebtim, kur mendon se je njeri q\u00eb d\u00ebshton n\u00eb jet\u00eb kur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt korrin sukses. K\u00ebto kuptime jan\u00eb fillimi i d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimit apo vet\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi yt n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Pse ekziston kjo sfid\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Shpeshher\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb gj\u00ebrat jemi t\u00eb prir\u00eb t\u2019i shohim vet\u00ebm nga nj\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim duke harruar se ekziston edhe ana tjet\u00ebr e t\u00eb lexuarit t\u00eb mesazhit.<\/p>\n<p>Cilat jan\u00eb ato dobi q\u00eb mund t\u00eb nxjerrim n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ndihemi t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar nga ndonj\u00eb sfid\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>D\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti kur ne kuptojm\u00eb se nuk ia dalim dot pa Allahun, pra na rikthen tek Krijuesi.<\/li>\n<li>D\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi q\u00eb p\u00ebr rezultat ka kthimin ton\u00eb tek Allahu na dhuron nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb re, sikur kemi rilindur.<\/li>\n<li>D\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb zbulimi apo identifikim i vetvetes. Kapacitetet njer\u00ebzore jan\u00eb t\u00eb kufizuara, mund\u00ebsit\u00eb ton\u00eb kan\u00eb kufij, ne nuk mund t\u00eb pavar\u00ebsohemi dot nga Krijuesi.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>D\u00ebmet dhe pasojat e d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimit n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Nuk ka dyshim se gj\u00ebrat jo t\u00eb mira n\u00eb jet\u00eb jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb na sjellin pasoja dhe d\u00ebme, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb aq t\u00eb m\u00ebdha saq\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i sh\u00ebruar. D\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb atribut i jobesimtar\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu thot\u00eb:<br \/>\n<strong><em>\u201cO bijt\u00eb e mi, shkoni dhe interesohuni p\u00ebr Jusufin dhe v\u00ebllan\u00eb e tij dhe mos e humbni shpres\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00ebn e Allahut. Vet\u00ebm jobesimtar\u00ebt e humbin shpres\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00ebn e Allahut.\u201d<\/em><\/strong>(Jusuf: 87)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Njeriu i d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar fillon t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoj\u00eb caktimin e Allahut.<\/li>\n<li>Ai mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb mendim t\u00eb keq p\u00ebr Allahun apo edhe t\u2019i shk\u00ebpus\u00eb lidhjet me Krijuesin.<\/li>\n<li>D\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi sjell dob\u00ebsim t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjes tek Allahu, shk\u00ebputje t\u00eb shpres\u00ebs dhe bindje se Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb i pafuqish\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta ndryshuar gjendjen e tij.<\/li>\n<li>Njeriu goditet nga pesimizmi dhe p\u00ebrtacia.<\/li>\n<li>Zhg\u00ebnjehet, ka ankesa t\u00eb panevojshme dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb joproduktiv n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Ila\u00e7i i d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimit<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Kur\u2019ani, libri i shenjt\u00eb,\u00e7do her\u00eb mbjell te besimtar\u00ebt shpirtin e shpres\u00ebs dhe optimizmit duke mos i l\u00ebn\u00eb vend d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimit apo pesimizmit.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201c&#8230; mos e k\u00ebputni shpres\u00ebn te m\u00ebshira e Allahut!\u201d <\/em><\/strong>(Zumer: 53)<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Njeriu derisa ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb l\u00ebviz\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i gjall\u00eb dhe nuk duhet ta kaploj\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi sepse k\u00ebshtu na ka udh\u00ebzuar e m\u00ebsuar Krijuesi i gjith\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe pastaj i D\u00ebrguari i njer\u00ebzis\u00eb, Muhamedi (alejhi selam).<\/p>\n<p>Nuk ka dyshim se n\u00eb jet\u00eb shpeshher\u00eb d\u00ebshtojm\u00eb. Njeriu duhet t\u00eb mbjell\u00eb shpirtin e shpres\u00ebs duke k\u00ebrkuar shkaqet e d\u00ebshtimit, q\u00eb t\u00eb largohet n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen prej tyre dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb nga Allahu ndihm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i realizuar q\u00ebllimet e tij duke pasur si moto fjal\u00ebt \u201cjeta ime \u00ebsht\u00eb pa d\u00ebshp\u00ebrim\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb metod\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb sesa t\u00eb drejtosh gishtin drejt t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve duke ua l\u00ebn\u00eb fajin e m\u00eb pas t\u00eb d\u00ebshtosh dhe t\u00eb t\u00eb kaploj\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi.<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb nga emrat e Allahut \u00ebsht\u00eb <em>\u201cEl Fetah\u201d.<\/em> Allahu nuk i mbyll dyert e pendimit p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb m\u00ebkateve tona. Nuk ka dyshim se d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje e r\u00ebnd\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e njeriut, e cila e l\u00eb t\u00eb gjymt\u00eb e pasiv p\u00ebrball\u00eb ambicieve n\u00eb jet\u00eb. N\u00eb fund do t\u00eb mundohemi t\u00eb sjellim edhe ila\u00e7in e k\u00ebsaj s\u00ebmundjeje:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Imani n\u00eb caktimin e Allahut, me koncept t\u00eb qart\u00eb dhe t\u00eb drejt\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>Edukimi i vetvetes p\u00ebr t\u2019iu mb\u00ebshtetur Allahut, veprimi i shkaqeve t\u00eb nevojshme dhe p\u00ebrpjekja p\u00ebr t\u2019i realizuar q\u00ebllimet n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>Vet\u00ebbesimi dhe marrja e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsive.<\/li>\n<li>Bindja drejt ndryshimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do sfer\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs duke m\u00ebsuar edhe nga p\u00ebrvojat e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm.<\/li>\n<li>T\u00eb lexuarit p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e Pejgamber\u00ebve,sepse ata ndryshuan historin\u00eb e njer\u00ebzimit, p\u00ebr v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb me t\u00eb cilat ata u ballafaquan, si i luftuan me vendosm\u00ebri e sinqeritet dhe si ia arrit\u00ebn t\u00eb kishin sukses me ndihm\u00ebn dhe fuqin\u00eb e Allahut.<\/li>\n<li>Bindja se t\u2019i dor\u00ebzohesh d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimit nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa t\u2019i shtosh vetes dhembje, d\u00ebshtim, lodhje e s\u00ebmundje. Alternativa e vetme \u00ebsht\u00eb serioziteti dhe shpresa.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><u>Lutja p\u00ebrmbyll\u00ebse<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Zoti im, t\u00eb lutem! Mos lejo q\u00eb jeta e k\u00ebsaj bote t\u00eb na d\u00ebshp\u00ebroj\u00eb.<br \/>\nMos na b\u00ebj nga ata t\u00eb cil\u00ebt p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimit e meritojn\u00eb hidh\u00ebrimin T\u00ebnd!<br \/>\nB\u00ebje jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb plot kuptime, hare, lumturi e buz\u00ebqeshje!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n<p>Burimi: Libri \u201c10 Sfidat e jet\u00ebs\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u201cMos humbni shpres\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00ebn e Allahut!\u201d(Jusuf: 87) \u00c7do njeri n\u00eb jet\u00eb ka d\u00ebshira dhe \u00ebndrra, t\u00eb cilat d\u00ebshiron t\u2019i realizoj\u00eb,por ekzistenca e d\u00ebshirave dhe \u00ebndrrave tona nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ato duhet t\u00eb realizohen n\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe vend t\u00eb caktuar. Ne duhet t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, se kjo bot\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":910,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,2,22],"tags":[45],"class_list":{"0":"post-909","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-artikuj","8":"category-e-zgjedhur","9":"category-shkrime-autoriale","10":"tag-sfidat-e-jetes"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/909","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=909"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/909\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":911,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/909\/revisions\/911"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/910"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=909"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=909"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=909"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}