{"id":912,"date":"2019-08-25T11:05:32","date_gmt":"2019-08-25T11:05:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=912"},"modified":"2019-08-25T11:06:23","modified_gmt":"2019-08-25T11:06:23","slug":"sfida-e-dhembjes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/08\/25\/sfida-e-dhembjes\/","title":{"rendered":"5. SFIDA E DHEMBJES"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cDuaje t\u00eb dashurin, por p\u00ebrmbahu&#8230;\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sa e sa njer\u00ebz n\u00eb jet\u00eb, kur i shohim apo i p\u00ebrmendim, na hapin plag\u00ebt e shkaktuara prej tyre! Shpeshher\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb nga njer\u00ebzit fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tilla si: \u201ca ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb mos ia p\u00ebrmend\u00ebsh emrin, a ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb mos flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr t\u00eb?\u201d K\u00ebto fjal\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ngjashme me to na tregojn\u00eb se plag\u00ebt ende nuk jan\u00eb sh\u00ebruar. Je ballafaquar n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb ballafaqohesh edhe me dhembje t\u00eb tjera. Zgjidh si d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb jetosh: me plag\u00eb apo pa plag\u00eb?!<\/p>\n<p>Sfida e dhembjes q\u00eb t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e af\u00ebrt \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr sfidat e dhimbshme dhe t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti kur t\u00eb godet di\u00e7ka e pak\u00ebndshme nga dikush q\u00eb nuk e ke pritur.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu i Madh\u00ebrish\u00ebm n\u00eb Kur\u2019an flet si u l\u00ebnduan njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, Pejgamber\u00ebt. Allahu i d\u00ebrgoi Pejgamber\u00ebt si sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzimin. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb gjersa Ibrahimi a.s. po e ftonte popullin e tij n\u00eb besim, ata u tall\u00ebn me t\u00eb. Dhembja e tij nisi pik\u00ebrisht kur nj\u00eb njeri i dashur n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij, babai i tij Azeri, u mundua ta n\u00ebn\u00e7monte Ibrahimin.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu na tregon debatin q\u00eb u zhvillua mes tyre:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>-\u201cO babai im, un\u00eb druaj se mos do t\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb d\u00ebnimi nga M\u00ebshiruesi, e do t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh shok i djallit.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><strong><em><br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>-\u201c(Baba i Ibrahimit) tha: \u201cO Ibrahim, ti vall\u00eb po shmangesh nga zotat e mi? N\u00ebse nuk frenohesh nga kjo, un\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00eb mbys ty me gur\u00eb; andaj, largohu prej meje p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb!\u201d<\/em><\/strong><strong><em><br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>-\u201c(Ibrahimi) tha: \u201cShp\u00ebtimi qoft\u00eb mbi ty! Do t\u2019i lutem Zotit tim q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb fal\u00eb ty. Me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, Ai (Per\u00ebndia), \u00ebsht\u00eb i mir\u00eb ndaj meje (pa mas\u00eb).<\/em><\/strong><strong><em><br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>-Dhe ju l\u00eb ju dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb adhurojn\u00eb (t\u00eb tjer\u00eb zota), pos Per\u00ebndis\u00eb; e, un\u00eb do t\u00eb adhuroj Zotin tim. Shpresoj se nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i papranuesh\u00ebm t\u00eb adhuruarit e Zotit tim.\u201d<\/em><\/strong>(Merjem: 45-48)<\/p>\n<p>Allahu i drejtohet Pejgamberit Muhamed (alejhi selam):<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cNe t\u00eb mjaftojm\u00eb ty kund\u00ebr atyre q\u00eb t\u00eb tallin (ty), t\u00eb cil\u00ebt p\u00ebrve\u00e7 Allahut, marrin edhe zot tjet\u00ebr, dhe do ta din\u00eb ata mir\u00eb (fundin)! Ne e dim\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb ty t\u00eb ngushtohet zemra, p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb thon\u00eb ata,andaj, madh\u00ebroje dhe fal\u00ebnderoje Zotin t\u00ebnd e b\u00ebhu prej atyre q\u00eb luten (p\u00ebrulen duke u falur). Dhe adhuroje Zotin t\u00ebnd p\u00ebrderisa t\u00eb arrij\u00eb gjendja e sigurt (vdekja)!\u201d<\/em><\/strong> (Hixh\u00ebr: 95-99)<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb sfida e dhembjes?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Plaga hapet n\u00eb at\u00eb moment kur ti mendon di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr dhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb\u00a0 moment e kupton se ajo ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb mashtrim p\u00ebr ty, kur ballafaqohesh dhe merr gj\u00ebra t\u00eb cilat nuk i ke menduar nga njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt t\u00eb jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Pse ekziston kjo sfid\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Sfida e plag\u00ebs nxjerr n\u00eb pah natyr\u00ebn njer\u00ebzore, se mang\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jona.<\/li>\n<li>Ne nuk duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb nga njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb engj\u00ebj. Mang\u00ebsia njer\u00ebzore shpie drejt gabimeve.<\/li>\n<li>Shenjt\u00ebria e njer\u00ebzve dhe mb\u00ebshtetja e plot\u00eb tek ata na b\u00ebn q\u00eb n\u00eb momentet e dhembjes q\u00eb na shkaktojn\u00eb, ne t\u00eb piqemi dhe t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijesohemi. Mos u b\u00ebj i that\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb thyejn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt e as i but\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb shtrydhin.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>D\u00ebmet dhe pasojat e dhembjeve n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Paragjykimi ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/li>\n<li>Urrejtja e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb af\u00ebrt.<\/li>\n<li>Distancimi nga ata q\u00eb na shkaktuan dhembje.<\/li>\n<li>Gjetja e rrug\u00ebve p\u00ebr hakmarrje.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Dobit\u00eb e dhembjes n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Njohja e njer\u00ebzve m\u00eb mir\u00eb se \u00e7\u2019kemi menduar.<\/li>\n<li>Plaga \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti i fillimit dhe jo i mposhtjes dhe humbjes.<\/li>\n<li>Rifillimi i kontakteve me njer\u00ebzit.<\/li>\n<li>Mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr pjekuri dhe maturi n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Si t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb n\u00eb momentet kur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt na l\u00ebndojn\u00eb?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Kur njer\u00ebzit na shkaktojn\u00eb plag\u00eb n\u00eb zemrat tona, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb si nj\u00eb plag\u00eb q\u00eb shkaktohet n\u00eb trupin ton\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk mjekohemi me koh\u00eb, ajo do t\u00eb mbetet e hapur p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb na shkaktoj\u00eb dhembje \u00e7do moment:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Moshapja e dosjeve p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb na shkaktuan dhembje.<\/li>\n<li>Vazhdimi i rrug\u00ebtimit n\u00eb jet\u00eb sepse mund t\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb kahun e assesi t\u00eb ndalemi.<\/li>\n<li>P\u00ebrkujtimi i njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj, se si i fal\u00ebn t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<li>Shembulli i Pejgamberit alejhi selam se si fali popullin dhe njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e l\u00ebnduan.<\/li>\n<li>Ebu Bekri vazhdoi ta ndihmonte at\u00eb njeri q\u00eb e kishte l\u00ebnduar dhe akuzuar n\u00eb nderin e familjes kur d\u00ebgjoi se Allahu kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb Kur\u2019an:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cPo n\u00ebse ju i arsyetoni ua mbuloni dhe i falni, edhe Allahu fal dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00ebplot\u00eb.\u201d<\/em><\/strong>(En-Nisa:149)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ibn Tejmije vizitoi nj\u00eb familje dhe mori p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr kujdesin ndaj tyre edhe pse babai i k\u00ebsaj familjeje ishte shkaktar q\u00eb ai q\u00ebndroi n\u00eb burg.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><u>Lutja p\u00ebrmbyll\u00ebse<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Zoti im! Mos lejo q\u00eb dhembjet tona t\u00eb na shkaktojn\u00eb plag\u00eb, e as me plag\u00ebt tona t\u2019i rr\u00ebnojm\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e bukura n<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n<p>Burimi: Libri \u201c10 Sfidat e jet\u00ebs\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cDuaje t\u00eb dashurin, por p\u00ebrmbahu&#8230;\u201d Sa e sa njer\u00ebz n\u00eb jet\u00eb, kur i shohim apo i p\u00ebrmendim, na hapin plag\u00ebt e shkaktuara prej tyre! Shpeshher\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb nga njer\u00ebzit fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tilla si: \u201ca ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb mos ia p\u00ebrmend\u00ebsh emrin, a ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb mos flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr t\u00eb?\u201d K\u00ebto fjal\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ngjashme me to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":913,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,2,22],"tags":[45],"class_list":{"0":"post-912","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-artikuj","8":"category-e-zgjedhur","9":"category-shkrime-autoriale","10":"tag-sfidat-e-jetes"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/912","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=912"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/912\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":916,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/912\/revisions\/916"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/913"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=912"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=912"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=912"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}