{"id":928,"date":"2019-09-03T07:47:05","date_gmt":"2019-09-03T07:47:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=928"},"modified":"2019-09-03T07:47:05","modified_gmt":"2019-09-03T07:47:05","slug":"8-sfida-e-merzise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/09\/03\/8-sfida-e-merzise\/","title":{"rendered":"8. SFIDA E M\u00cbRZIS\u00cb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cO Zoti im, k\u00ebrkoj mbrojtjen T\u00ebnde nga brengat dhe m\u00ebrzia!\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\"><strong>[1]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>M\u00ebrzia \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs son\u00eb dhe e natyr\u00ebs njer\u00ebzores, asaj nuk mund t\u2019i shmanget askush. Sikur t\u00eb kishte shp\u00ebtuar dikush prej saj, do t\u00eb ishin Pejgamber\u00ebt e Allahut. Edhe pse ishin njer\u00ebz t\u00eb p\u00ebrzgjedhur t\u00eb Zotit, ata m\u00ebrziteshin. Shpeshher\u00eb nga goja e t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit ton\u00eb d\u00ebgjohej edhe kjo dua:<em>\u201cO Zoti im, k\u00ebrkoj mbrojtjen T\u00ebnde nga brengat dhe m\u00ebrzia!\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\"><strong>[2]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Allahu n\u00eb disa vende iu drejtua atij duke e k\u00ebshilluar q\u00eb t\u00eb rrij\u00eb larg m\u00ebrzis\u00eb n\u00ebse e godet.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cDhe mos t\u00eb pik\u00ebllojn\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e tyre.\u201d <\/em><\/strong>(Jasin: 76)<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201c<em>Dhe mos u pik\u00ebllo ti p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb tyre dhe mos u ngushto ti p\u00ebr p\u00ebshtjellimet e tyre.\u201d <\/em><\/strong>(Neml: 70)<\/p>\n<p>Edukimi hyjnor ishte burimi i fjal\u00ebve q\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti e luftoi m\u00ebrzin\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij dhe i m\u00ebsoi t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00eb mos ta l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebrzin\u00eb t\u2019ua ngulfas\u00eb jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n<p>Ai n\u00eb shpell\u00ebn Theur i tha shoq\u00ebruesit t\u00eb tij Ebu Bekrit:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cAi (Muhamedi a.s.) i tha shokut t\u00eb vet (Ebu Bekrit r.a.): \u201cMos u brengos, v\u00ebrtet Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb me ne!\u201d <\/em><\/strong>(Teube: 40)<\/p>\n<p>Kemi shum\u00eb raste nga jeta e Profetit Muhamed alejhi selam kur ai m\u00ebrzitej p\u00ebr familjen, shok\u00ebt dhe vendlindjen, por kurr\u00eb nuk lejoi q\u00eb m\u00ebrzia t\u00eb dominonte n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebrzia?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>M\u00ebrzia \u00ebsht\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb e fshehur n\u00eb brend\u00ebsin\u00eb e njeriut, ajo ngadal\u00ebson frym\u00ebmarrjen, shtr\u00ebngon gjoksin, cop\u00ebton zemr\u00ebn. Ajo shkaktohet kur dashuron di\u00e7ka \u00e7mendurisht dhe n\u00eb moment zbulon se gjith\u00e7ka ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb iluzion, kur p\u00ebrzgjedh gj\u00ebra dhe kupton se ke p\u00ebrzgjedhur gabim.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00ebrzia na godet m\u00eb tep\u00ebr kur ndiejm\u00eb se err\u00ebsira na ka kapluar nga \u00e7do an\u00eb, kur syve tan\u00eb u fshihen gj\u00ebrat e bukura, kur humbim nj\u00eb shok pa t\u00eb cilin mendojm\u00eb se nuk mund t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb, kur p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ast humbim gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb zot\u00ebronim.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Pasojat dhe d\u00ebmet e m\u00ebrzis\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Nuk ka dyshim se m\u00ebrzia l\u00eb pasoja n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, por ne \u00e7do her\u00eb duhet t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb energji p\u00ebr ta luftuar at\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00ebrzia z\u00eb aq vend te ne, saq\u00eb b\u00ebhemi vet\u00eb ne m\u00ebrzia.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00ebrzia shpeshher\u00eb na ngulfat duke na b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb se n\u00eb jet\u00eb ka shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb bukura dhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb na ndri\u00e7ojn\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00ebn q\u00eb na sjell m\u00ebrzia.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00ebrzia mbjell urrejtje. Personin e m\u00ebrzitur nuk e do ask\u00ebnd.<\/li>\n<li>Ajo sjell depresion.<\/li>\n<li>Shkakton d\u00ebme sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00ebrzia e b\u00ebn individin apo shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb pasive duke mos sjell\u00eb produktivitet n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00ebrzia sjell verbim, a thua se me k\u00ebt\u00eb sfid\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs erdhi fundi i bot\u00ebs.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Momenti i m\u00ebrzis\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00c7donj\u00ebri prej nesh ka momente n\u00eb jet\u00eb, qofshin t\u00eb kaluara apo t\u00eb tanishme, kur p\u00ebrjeton m\u00ebrzi n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij, por e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr ne \u00ebsht\u00eb se si do t\u00eb reagojm\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto momente. A do ta kalojm\u00eb testin e k\u00ebsaj sfide apo do t\u00eb ngelim n\u00eb t\u00eb dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00eb do t\u00eb dalim nga ajo?<\/p>\n<p>Momenti i m\u00ebrzis\u00eb na tregon realitetin e k\u00ebsaj jete.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7donj\u00ebri prej nesh n\u00eb momentin e m\u00ebrzis\u00eb kalon n\u00ebp\u00ebr k\u00ebta hapa:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Refuzimi<\/li>\n<li>Hidh\u00ebrimi<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7orientimi<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Ose do t\u00eb jesh nga ata q\u00eb do t\u00eb din\u00eb t\u2019i kalojn\u00eb k\u00ebta hapa ose do t\u00eb ngelesh n\u00eb ta. M\u00eb e mira \u00ebsht\u00eb kur i kalon me nxitim k\u00ebto momente dhe vazhdon jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Ila\u00e7i i m\u00ebrzis\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Pejgamberi alejhi selam, kur i vdiq djali i tij, na dha nj\u00eb ila\u00e7 kur tha<em>: \u201cSyri le t\u00eb lotoj\u00eb, zemra le t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitet, por gjuha t\u00eb thot\u00eb vet\u00ebm at\u00eb q\u00eb Zoti yn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur.\u201d <a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\"><strong>[3]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00ebrzitesh n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dynja, sepse nuk mundet askush t\u2019i ik\u00eb asaj, p\u00ebrkujto dit\u00ebn kur nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb m\u00ebrzi.<\/p>\n<p>Fjala e par\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb thon\u00eb banor\u00ebt e xhenetit kur t\u00eb hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb xhenet \u00ebsht\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cE ata thon\u00eb: \u201cFal\u00ebnderuar qoft\u00eb Allahu q\u00eb largoi prej nesh brengat; v\u00ebrtet, Zoti yn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb fal shum\u00eb dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb bamir\u00ebs.\u201d (Fatir:34)<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kujto fjal\u00ebt e Allahut kur do t\u00eb na th\u00ebrras\u00eb n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Gjykimit:<br \/>\n<strong><em>\u201cO rob\u00ebrit e Mi, p\u00ebr ju sot nuk ka frik\u00eb, as q\u00eb do t\u00eb pik\u00eblloheni.\u201d <\/em><\/strong>(Zuhruf: 68)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><u>Lutja p\u00ebrmbyll\u00ebse<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Zoti im, k\u00ebrkoj mbrojtjen T\u00ebnde nga brengat dhe m\u00ebrzia, nga paaft\u00ebsia dhe dembelia, nga koprracia dhe frika, si dhe nga zhytja n\u00eb borxhe dhe mposhtja prej njer\u00ebzve!<\/em><\/strong><a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\"><strong><em>[4]<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Transmeton Buhariu, 7\/158: &#8220;Pejgamberi a.s. e p\u00ebrs\u00ebriste shpesh k\u00ebt\u00eb lutje.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Transmeton Buhariu, 7\/158: &#8220;Pejgamberi a.s. e p\u00ebrs\u00ebriste shpesh k\u00ebt\u00eb lutje.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a>Sh\u00ebnon Buhariu, Muslimi.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a>Sh\u00ebnon Buhariu, 7\/158: &#8220;Pejgamberi a.s. e p\u00ebrs\u00ebriste shpesh k\u00ebt\u00eb lutje.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n<p>Burimi: Libri \u201c10 Sfidat e jet\u00ebs\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cO Zoti im, k\u00ebrkoj mbrojtjen T\u00ebnde nga brengat dhe m\u00ebrzia!\u201d[1] M\u00ebrzia \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs son\u00eb dhe e natyr\u00ebs njer\u00ebzores, asaj nuk mund t\u2019i shmanget askush. Sikur t\u00eb kishte shp\u00ebtuar dikush prej saj, do t\u00eb ishin Pejgamber\u00ebt e Allahut. Edhe pse ishin njer\u00ebz t\u00eb p\u00ebrzgjedhur t\u00eb Zotit, ata m\u00ebrziteshin. Shpeshher\u00eb nga goja e t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":929,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,2,22],"tags":[45],"class_list":{"0":"post-928","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-artikuj","8":"category-e-zgjedhur","9":"category-shkrime-autoriale","10":"tag-sfidat-e-jetes"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/928","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=928"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/928\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":930,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/928\/revisions\/930"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/929"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=928"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=928"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=928"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}