{"id":931,"date":"2019-09-03T07:52:22","date_gmt":"2019-09-03T07:52:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=931"},"modified":"2019-09-03T07:52:22","modified_gmt":"2019-09-03T07:52:22","slug":"9-sfida-e-semundjes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/09\/03\/9-sfida-e-semundjes\/","title":{"rendered":"9. SFIDA E S\u00cbMUNDJES"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cDhe kur t\u00eb s\u00ebmurem, Ai m\u00eb sh\u00ebron.\u201d<\/em> (Shuara: 80)<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb gjith\u00eb gjendemi n\u00eb sall\u00ebn e madhe t\u00eb provimit q\u00eb quhet jet\u00eb. \u00c7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb gjendet n\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb provim dhe sfid\u00eb p\u00ebr njeriun. Pasuria, varf\u00ebria, familja, rinia, pleq\u00ebria, shoq\u00ebria, fqinj\u00ebsia, puna, sh\u00ebndeti, s\u00ebmundja t\u00eb gjitha jan\u00eb provime dhe sfida n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>I pasuri \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb provim dhe nuk e kupton se \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb sall\u00ebn e provimit derisa t\u00eb humb\u00eb pasurin\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ai q\u00eb ka sh\u00ebndet nuk e ndien q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb sall\u00ebn e provimit derisa t\u00eb s\u00ebmuret.<\/p>\n<p>Bukura e k\u00ebsaj salle \u00ebsht\u00eb se i gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzimi q\u00ebndron brenda saj. Nuk ka refuzim e as q\u00eb mundet dikush t\u2019i ik\u00eb derisa ka jet\u00eb sepse salla e provimit \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00eb jeta jon\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Momenti i s\u00ebmundjes<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Lexo fjal\u00ebt e t\u00eb madhit Allah, i Cili na ka treguar realitetin e jet\u00ebs dhe krijimit ton\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201c<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>Ju me siguri do t\u00eb viheni n\u00eb prov\u00eb me pasurin\u00eb tuaj dhe me jet\u00ebn tuaj.\u201d<\/em><\/strong>(Al\u2019imran: 186)<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cAi i cili ka krijuar jet\u00ebn dhe vdekjen, p\u00ebr t\u2019ju provuar se kush prej jush vepron m\u00eb mir\u00eb.\u201d <\/em><\/strong>(Mulk: 2)<\/p>\n<p>Dhe gjithashtu thot\u00eb<em>:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201c<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>Ne ju v\u00ebm\u00eb n\u00eb sprov\u00eb ju me t\u00eb keqe dhe me t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe te Ne do t\u00eb ktheheni.\u201d <\/em><\/strong>(Enbija:35)<\/p>\n<p>Nuk ka njeri q\u00eb nuk ankohet nga s\u00ebmundja gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs apo nat\u00ebs. Sprova \u00ebsht\u00eb ligj i Allahut n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb l\u00ebmsh q\u00eb quhet dynja. S\u00ebmundja \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e trupit ton\u00eb, e k\u00ebtij trupi t\u00eb dob\u00ebt. Njeriu nga vet\u00eb natyrshm\u00ebria e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb i dob\u00ebt, por m\u00ebshira e Allahut ka b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb ne ta harrojm\u00eb s\u00ebmundjen shpejt. Ajo q\u00eb e ndihmon njeriun t\u2019i shuaj\u00eb dhembjet e s\u00ebmundjes \u00ebsht\u00eb kur sheh se tjetri \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb keq se ai.<\/p>\n<p>A nuk na k\u00ebshilloi i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut duke na porositur<em>: <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme puna e besimtarit. E gjith\u00eb jeta e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb dobi. N\u00ebse atij i vjen nj\u00eb e mir\u00eb, ai fal\u00ebnderon Zotin dhe merr shp\u00ebrblim p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. N\u00ebse atij i bie nj\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsi, ai duron p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb Zotit dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri shp\u00ebrblehet p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. E kjo gj\u00eb ndodh vet\u00ebm me besimtarin.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\"><strong>[1]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Nuk ka dyshim se sh\u00ebndeti \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr dhuntit\u00eb e m\u00ebdha t\u00eb Allahut, pas s\u00eb cil\u00ebs jan\u00eb mashtruar shumica e njer\u00ebzve dhe nuk e shfryt\u00ebzojn\u00eb ashtu si duhet. Pejgamberi (alejhi selam) ka th\u00ebn\u00eb<em>: \u201cShfryt\u00ebzoni pes\u00eb gj\u00ebra para se t\u2019ju vijn\u00eb pes\u00eb t\u00eb tjera&#8230;\u201d <a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\"><strong>[2]<\/strong><\/a><\/em>dhe nd\u00ebr to ka p\u00ebrmendur: <em>sh\u00ebndetin para se t\u00eb s\u00ebmuremi.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7donj\u00ebrit nga ne q\u00eb Allahu i ka dhuruar sh\u00ebndet fillimisht duhet ta fal\u00ebnderoj\u00eb Zotin p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb mir\u00ebsi q\u00eb tjetri nuk e posedon. Le t\u2019ia kemi frik\u00ebn Allahut dhe mos ta humbim sh\u00ebndetin ton\u00eb duke prekur n\u00eb harame dhe n\u00eb ato gj\u00ebra q\u00eb Allahu nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me ne.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu thot\u00eb:<br \/>\n<strong><em>\u201cE njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar si qenie e pafuqishme.\u201d<\/em><\/strong>(Nisa: 4 )<\/p>\n<p>Pafuqia e njeriut, dob\u00ebsia e tij b\u00ebn q\u00eb ai n\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb goditet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment me sfid\u00ebn e s\u00ebmundjes. Nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr momentet m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira q\u00eb kalon njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb kur merr lajmin apo ndien vet\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb i s\u00ebmur\u00eb. Ky moment aq sa \u00ebsht\u00eb i m\u00ebrzitsh\u00ebm n\u00eb brend\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij mban shum\u00eb dometh\u00ebnie, urti dhe dobi.<br \/>\nV\u00ebshtir\u00ebsia e tij q\u00ebndron se njeriu shpeshher\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb ballafaqohet me realitetin. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment atij i kujtohet familja, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, shoq\u00ebria, pasuria dhe shum\u00eb \u00ebndrra t\u00eb parealizuara, t\u00eb cilat pastaj e b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitet. Por n\u00ebse njeriu arrin ta b\u00ebj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment shum\u00eb dometh\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe historik n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij, mund t\u2019ia dal\u00eb mban\u00eb. Kur ai kujton se i thot\u00eb vetes besimtar, beson n\u00eb caktimin e Zotit n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb apo keq, ky moment i kujton se n\u00ebse duron, Allahu e do. Kujton se edhe Pejgamber\u00ebt e Allahut s\u00ebmureshin edhe pse ishin njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur t\u00eb Zotit. Allahu na ka treguar p\u00ebr Ejubin a.s., i cili ishte p\u00ebrballur me sfid\u00ebn e s\u00ebmundjes dhe Allahu tha p\u00ebr t\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cV\u00ebrtet, Ne e gjet\u00ebm at\u00eb t\u00eb duruesh\u00ebm. Sa rob shum\u00eb i mir\u00eb ishte ai dhe i kthyer te Zoti.\u201d <\/em><\/strong>(Sadd: 44)<\/p>\n<p>Pejgamberi yn\u00eb u s\u00ebmur disa her\u00eb gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij dhe n\u00eb fund, kur u nda nga kjo jet\u00eb, u nda duke u p\u00ebrballur me sfid\u00ebn e s\u00ebmundjes.<\/p>\n<p>Ose do t\u00eb jesh i duruesh\u00ebm, i kthyer te Zoti yt, ose do t\u00eb jesh kund\u00ebrshtar i caktimit t\u00eb Tij dhe do t\u00eb vuash p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Enesi (radijAllahu anhu) transmeton se i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut (alejhi selam)ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: <em>\u201cMos b\u00ebni lutje p\u00ebr t\u00eb vdekur dhe as mos e d\u00ebshironi vdekjen. E n\u00ebse patjet\u00ebr doni t\u00eb luteni me di\u00e7ka, at\u00ebher\u00eb lutuni k\u00ebshtu: \u201cO Zot, m\u00eb l\u00ebr t\u00eb jetoj derisa jeta t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr mua dhe m\u00eb vdis n\u00ebse vdekja \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr mua!\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\"><strong>[3]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>S\u00ebmundja, urt\u00ebsia dhe dobit\u00eb e saj<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb s\u00ebmundja z\u00eb vend te ne derisa b\u00ebhemi vet\u00eb s\u00ebmundja, duke mos e shikuar bot\u00ebn me ngjyrat e saj sepse ajo na ka verbuar. Dije se ngjyra e zez\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb, por e bardha \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb e mir\u00eb, e n\u00ebse shikon nga qielli, t\u00eb jep edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb shpres\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00eb adhuruarit e Allahut me durim:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Allahu thot\u00eb p\u00ebr durimtar\u00ebt:<br \/>\n<strong>\u201cAllahu i do durimtar\u00ebt.\u201d <\/strong>(Al\u2019imran: 146)<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Shkak p\u00ebr hyrjen n\u00eb xhenet<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Xheneti \u00ebsht\u00eb mall i shtrenjt\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk blihet leht\u00eb. Pejgamberi alejhi selam ka transmetuar se Allahu ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: <em>\u201cKur robi Im sprovohet me dy t\u00eb dashurit e tij (verbohet) dhe duron, do t\u2019ia kompensoj me xhenet.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\"><strong>[4]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Kthimi n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e Allahut<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kur njeriu ka humbur rrug\u00ebn e Zotit, s\u00ebmundja b\u00ebhet shkak q\u00eb ai t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e drejt\u00eb. Largohet nga gjynahet sepse sh\u00ebndeti e mashtron shpesh her\u00eb njeriun t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn t\u00eb gabuara dhe ta harroj\u00eb Krijuesin e tij.<\/p>\n<p>Ibn Tejmije thot\u00eb: <em>\u201cSprova q\u00eb t\u00eb kthen tek Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb sesa dhuntia (sh\u00ebndeti), q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn ta harrosh Allahun.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ibn Kajimi thot\u00eb: <em>\u201cSikur t\u00eb mos ishin sprovat e k\u00ebsaj bote, njeriun do ta preknin s\u00ebmundje si mendjemadh\u00ebsia, vet\u00ebp\u00eblqimi, forcimi i zemr\u00ebs, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb shkaktare t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrimit t\u00eb tij. Nga m\u00ebshira e t\u00eb Gjith\u00ebm\u00ebshirshmit \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ta godas\u00eb njeriun me k\u00ebto sprova, q\u00eb ta mbroj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto s\u00ebmundje.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Hapja e der\u00ebs s\u00eb lutjes<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nga urt\u00ebsia dhe dobit\u00eb e s\u00ebmundjes \u00ebsht\u00eb se njeriu hap der\u00ebn e lutjes mes tij dhe Allahut duke u munduar q\u00eb t\u00eb shpreh\u00eb dob\u00ebsin\u00eb, fajin, k\u00ebrkimin e faljes. Me lutje ai do t\u00eb ndihet m\u00eb af\u00ebr Krijuesit t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Planifikimi i jet\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Njeriun kur e godet s\u00ebmundja, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i af\u00ebrt me familjar\u00ebt, farefisin, do t\u00eb mundohet ta plot\u00ebsoj\u00eb zbraz\u00ebtir\u00ebn q\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb. Ai do t\u00eb mundohet t\u2019u k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb falje atyre q\u00eb i ka l\u00ebnduar n\u00eb jet\u00eb, t\u2019u paguaj\u00eb borxhet njer\u00ebzve. Tani e tutje jeta e tij do t\u00eb ket\u00eb tjet\u00ebr planifikim.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mendimi i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr Allahun<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kur trupin e njeriut e godet s\u00ebmundja, ai duhet t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se af\u00ebrsia apo largimi prej njer\u00ebzve nuk i b\u00ebn dobi, por duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb mendim t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr Allahun dhe nga praktika e k\u00ebtij mendimi t\u00eb mir\u00eb k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb t\u00eb veproj\u00eb shkaqet p\u00ebr mjekimin e s\u00ebmundjes.<\/p>\n<p>Pejgamberi alejhi selam thot\u00eb: <em>\u201cAllahu nuk ka zbritur s\u00ebmundje ve\u00e7se me t\u00eb ka zbritur edhe ila\u00e7in.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\"><strong>[5]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Dhe: <em>\u201cMjekohuni o rob\u00ebr t\u00eb Allahut, por mos u mjekoni me haram. Allahu nuk ka b\u00ebr\u00eb ila\u00e7 n\u00eb ato gj\u00ebra q\u00eb i ka ndaluar.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn6\" name=\"_ftnref6\"><strong>[6]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Si t\u2019i kalojm\u00eb momentet e s\u00ebmundjes?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Kur ti merr lajmin se je i s\u00ebmur\u00eb, praktiko k\u00ebta hapa:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ji i qet\u00eb dhe hesht.<\/li>\n<li>B\u00ebhu i k\u00ebnaqur me at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ka caktuar Zoti.<\/li>\n<li>Mjekohu, k\u00ebrko ila\u00e7in.<\/li>\n<li>B\u00ebhu i edukuar e jo i hidh\u00ebruar.<\/li>\n<li>Duro pa ankesa.<\/li>\n<li>Shpeshto lutjet, se \u201clutja \u00ebsht\u00eb arma e besimtarit\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><u>Lutja p\u00ebrmbyll\u00ebse<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cO Zoti im, m\u00eb l\u00ebr t\u00eb jetoj derisa jeta t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr mua dhe m\u00eb vdis n\u00ebse vdekja \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr mua!\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn7\" name=\"_ftnref7\">[7]<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Sh\u00ebnon Muslimi.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> E ka nxjerr\u00eb Hakimi n\u00eb Mustedrek, nr. 7846\/4\/341. E sakt\u00ebsoi Albani n\u00eb Sahu Xhami, nr. 1077.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Sahih el Xhami, 7265.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> Sh\u00ebnon Buhariu, hadith kudsij.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">[5]<\/a>Sh\u00ebnon Buhariu.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref6\" name=\"_ftn6\">[6]<\/a> Sh\u00ebnon Ebu Davudi.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref7\" name=\"_ftn7\">[7]<\/a>Sahih el Xhami, 7265.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n<p>Burimi: Libri \u201c10 Sfidat e jet\u00ebs\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cDhe kur t\u00eb s\u00ebmurem, Ai m\u00eb sh\u00ebron.\u201d (Shuara: 80) T\u00eb gjith\u00eb gjendemi n\u00eb sall\u00ebn e madhe t\u00eb provimit q\u00eb quhet jet\u00eb. \u00c7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb gjendet n\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb provim dhe sfid\u00eb p\u00ebr njeriun. Pasuria, varf\u00ebria, familja, rinia, pleq\u00ebria, shoq\u00ebria, fqinj\u00ebsia, puna, sh\u00ebndeti, s\u00ebmundja t\u00eb gjitha jan\u00eb provime dhe sfida n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb. I pasuri [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":933,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,2,22],"tags":[45],"class_list":{"0":"post-931","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-artikuj","8":"category-e-zgjedhur","9":"category-shkrime-autoriale","10":"tag-sfidat-e-jetes"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/931","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=931"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/931\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":934,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/931\/revisions\/934"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/933"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=931"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=931"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=931"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}