{"id":935,"date":"2019-09-03T07:57:27","date_gmt":"2019-09-03T07:57:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/?p=935"},"modified":"2019-09-03T07:57:27","modified_gmt":"2019-09-03T07:57:27","slug":"10-sfida-e-ndarjes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/2019\/09\/03\/10-sfida-e-ndarjes\/","title":{"rendered":"10. SFIDA E NDARJES"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cT\u00eb Allahut jan\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ka dhuruar dhe ka marr\u00eb.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\"><strong>[1]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Allahu thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201c\u00c7do qenie e gjall\u00eb do t\u00eb shijoj\u00eb vdekjen!\u201d <\/em><\/strong>(Al\u2019imran: 185)<\/p>\n<p>Nuk ka krijes\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e p\u00ebrjeton k\u00ebt\u00eb sfid\u00eb, sfid\u00ebn e ndarjes nga kjo jet\u00eb. Kjo sfid\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pakontestueshme, e pashmangshme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb ai moment kur njer\u00ebzit ndahen nga ne apo ne ndahemi nga ata.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb sfid\u00eb e dhimbshme kur pret t\u00eb \u00e7el\u00eb m\u00ebngjesi dhe nuk d\u00ebgjon z\u00ebrin e babait n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi apo z\u00ebrin e \u00ebmb\u00ebl t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs, e cila \u00e7do dit\u00eb cic\u00ebron si z\u00ebri i bilbilit, apo b\u00ebhet nat\u00eb dhe v\u00ebllai, motra, biri apo bija nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb mesin ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Apo kur provon ta th\u00ebrras\u00ebsh shokun e jet\u00ebs e pret t\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet, edhe pse ti je i bindur q\u00eb ai m\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb kthehet sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb ndar\u00eb nga jeta.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb do t\u00eb na mungojn\u00eb shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz, por edhe ne do t\u2019u mungojm\u00eb atyre at\u00eb dit\u00eb kur do t\u00eb ndahemi nga jeta. Trupi \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndar\u00eb nga kjo jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201c&#8230;kurse njeriu nuk e di se \u00e7ka do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nes\u00ebr dhe askush nuk e di se n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb vendi do t\u00eb vdes\u00eb. Allahu me siguri e di dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb i informuar p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka.\u201d<br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong>(Lukman: 31)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb sfida e ndarjes?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb momenti kur ti sheh apo d\u00ebgjon se filani ka nd\u00ebrruar jet\u00eb. Ai m\u00eb nuk jeton, ti nuk mund t\u00eb kontaktosh me t\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb moment kur ti ndien dhembje p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashurit e tu q\u00eb tani m\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e k\u00ebsaj bote.<\/p>\n<p>Por shpresa mbetet n\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00ebn e Zotit, q\u00eb ka kapluar \u00e7do gj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Pse ekziston kjo sfid\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Kjo sfid\u00eb, ndarja nga jeta, ekziston p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar se Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb i Vetmi, i Gjalli, i P\u00ebrjetshmi, i Pafillim, i Pambarim, i lart\u00ebsuar qoft\u00eb Ai.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo sfid\u00eb ekziston p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh, nj\u00eb m\u00ebsim nga Krijuesi i gjith\u00ebsis\u00eb, se edhe ti nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>D\u00ebmet dhe pasojat e saj n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Allahu thot\u00eb:<br \/>\n<strong>\u201c&#8230;<\/strong><strong>e kur vjen afati, p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb moment nuk munden as ta vonojn\u00eb e as ta shpejtojn\u00eb.\u201d<\/strong>(Nahl: 61)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Por, ndarja:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Sjell m\u00ebrzi.<\/li>\n<li>E \u00e7orienton njeriun dhe e cop\u00ebton zemr\u00ebn e tij.<\/li>\n<li>N\u00eb moment sjell d\u00ebshp\u00ebrim dhe brenga t\u00eb m\u00ebdha.<\/li>\n<li>Mbjell te dikush mendim t\u00eb keq p\u00ebr Zotin.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Dobit\u00eb e saj n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Allahu rr\u00ebfen p\u00ebr sfid\u00ebn e ndarjes, se asaj nuk mund t\u2019i ik\u00eb askush.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cThuaj: \u201cVdekjes s\u00eb cil\u00ebs po i ikni ju, ajo do t\u2019ju arrij\u00eb. Pastaj, ju do t\u00eb ktheheni tek Ai, q\u00eb i di gj\u00ebrat e dukshme dhe t\u00eb padukshme, dhe Ai do t\u2019u informoj\u00eb juve p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb keni punuar.\u201d<\/em><\/strong>(Xhuma: 8)<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Vdekja \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsimi, k\u00ebshilla m\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr njeriun.<\/li>\n<li>Kalimi nga jeta e p\u00ebrkohshme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrhershme.<\/li>\n<li>Kalimi nga jeta ku ka pasur nj\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb ku ka nj\u00ebqind m\u00ebshira t\u00eb Allahut.<\/li>\n<li>Vdekja na kujton takimin me Allahun.<\/li>\n<li>E inkurajon njeriun t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb largohet nga veprat e liga.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Si t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb n\u00eb momentet e ndarjes?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>P\u00ebrball\u00eb sprov\u00ebs s\u00eb ndarjes ekzistojn\u00eb dy kategori njer\u00ebzish:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Ai i cili m\u00ebrzitet p\u00ebr humbjen dhe ndarjen me t\u00eb dashurin e tij n\u00eb jet\u00eb, por megjithat\u00eb jep gjith\u00e7ka nga vetja e tij p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb n\u00eb form\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb i bindur se k\u00ebshtu duhet t\u2019ia dor\u00ebzojm\u00eb Allahut t\u00eb vdekurin ton\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>Ai i cili zhytet n\u00eb m\u00ebrzi dhe humb orientimin, humb rrug\u00ebn dhe nuk pranon se dikush duhet t\u00eb ndahet nga jeta, nuk mund ta paramendoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn pa t\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast duhet t\u00eb kesh parasysh k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Mos e kund\u00ebrshto caktimin e Allahut.<\/li>\n<li>Vajtimin dhe dhembjen shnd\u00ebrroje n\u00eb dua.<\/li>\n<li>Kaloje k\u00ebt\u00eb sfid\u00eb me m\u00ebrzi sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsore.<\/li>\n<li>Lidhu me At\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i gjall\u00eb, i p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm, Krijuesin t\u00ebnd.<\/li>\n<li>Kuptoje se jeta vazhdon dhe pa t\u00eb dashurit tan\u00eb, edhe n\u00ebse duket m\u00eb ndryshe.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Pejgamberi Muhamed, paqja dhe bekimet e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb<em>: \u201cNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb prej nesh ai q\u00eb e godet veten, gris rrobat dhe th\u00ebrret me thirrje t\u00eb injoranc\u00ebs.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\"><strong>[2]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><u>Lutja p\u00ebrmbyll\u00ebse<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Zoti yn\u00eb! B\u00ebje vdekjen e t\u00eb dashurve tan\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb dhe m\u00ebsim p\u00ebr ne. Na b\u00ebj t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur me caktimin T\u00ebnd. O Zot i madh! Fali ata dhe ne n\u00eb momentin kur ndahemi nga jeta! <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Na b\u00ebj q\u00eb syri yn\u00eb t\u00eb lotoj\u00eb, zemra t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitet e gjuha jon\u00eb t\u00eb mos thot\u00eb vet\u00ebm se at\u00eb q\u00eb Ti je i k\u00ebnaqur! <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a>Sh\u00ebnon Buhariu.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a>Sh\u00ebnon Muslimi.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Autor: Rashit Zylfiu<\/p>\n<p>Burimi: Libri \u201c10 Sfidat e jet\u00ebs\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cT\u00eb Allahut jan\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ka dhuruar dhe ka marr\u00eb.\u201d[1] Allahu thot\u00eb: \u201c\u00c7do qenie e gjall\u00eb do t\u00eb shijoj\u00eb vdekjen!\u201d (Al\u2019imran: 185) Nuk ka krijes\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e p\u00ebrjeton k\u00ebt\u00eb sfid\u00eb, sfid\u00ebn e ndarjes nga kjo jet\u00eb. Kjo sfid\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pakontestueshme, e pashmangshme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb ai moment kur njer\u00ebzit ndahen nga [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":936,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,2,22],"tags":[45],"class_list":{"0":"post-935","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-artikuj","8":"category-e-zgjedhur","9":"category-shkrime-autoriale","10":"tag-sfidat-e-jetes"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/935","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=935"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/935\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":937,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/935\/revisions\/937"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/936"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=935"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=935"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rashitzylfiu.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=935"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}